Tuesday, March 5, 2024

February 2024 Cookbook Reviews

 


The Fresh-Milled Flour Bread Book by Tim Giuffi

I've started getting into milling my own flour and my library hasn't had very many books on the subject at all. So, when I saw this one I definitely wanted to check it out. But, almost immediately I was disappointed. The author talks about how he got into milling and baking in the Introduction, then talks about grain mills and different types of grains. Then it goes right into the recipes. My issue? At least 2/3 of the recipes require a sourdough starter - that is not super obvious by the title. Yes, it is in the subtitle, but I would argue that the subtitle does not imply that ALL the recipes will be for sourdough. Also, there are a lot of tools and specific types of pans noted in the recipes with no explanation. I'm a good home cook and read a lot about cooking and food and I had to look some of the equipment up because I wasn't familiar with it. There is no section about recommended tools/pans/etc. or a chapter on how to start and maintain a sourdough starter. It was very disappointing because I felt like there wasn't enough information.



Week Light by Donna Hay

I had checked out a couple other cookbooks by Donna Hay so I decided to check this one out too. While I'm all about eating healthy, I just didn't see hardly any recipes I wanted to try. I did like that in the "basics to brilliance" chapter there was a base recipe and then several recipes using that base. If you really enjoy ethnic, vegetarian food I think this is the cookbook for you. But, if you want to eat healthier and still include meat and dairy there wasn't much here for you. I liked her other cookbooks that I checked out but I didn't like this one much.



Flour Lab: an at-home guide to baking with freshly milled grains by Adam Leonti

I've started getting into milling my own flour but have had a hard time finding cookbooks that are designed specifically around home milling. This one seems to fit the bill. I think I will end up buying this one because I felt like it was the most comprehensive one I've seen yet. I especially liked how much information he gave in the first few chapters about types of wheat, types of mills, general info about wheat and milling, supplies, cooking tips - then on to the recipes. While I haven't tried any of the recipes yet, they look pretty simple to follow and there is a wide variety of recipes. This book has definitely inspired me to source some more varieties of wheat and try to expand beyond just whole wheat bread.





February 2024 Reviews

 


I'm Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy (Evening Edition book club)

I didn't know who Jennette McCurdy was and never watched either of her Nickelodeon shows iCarly or Sam & Cat. One of my book clubs voted this one in and as someone who often reads dysfunctional family memoirs I thought this would be a good fit for me. Jeannette's mother was obviously mentally ill (as was her grandmother and probably her father too) but it was hard for me figure out what exactly her diagnosis would have been - she was a hoarder, anorexic, extremely overly involved in her children's lives (to the point of still bathing them into their teens), and threw explosive tantrums when she didn't get her way. She was obviously narcissistic but there had to be more. Jeannette's mother's dream was to be an actor, so she pushed her only daughter into that role. Because of both that forced push into acting and all the underlying mental illness, Jeannette developed OCD, a SERIOUS eating disorder, alcoholism, and several extremely dysfunctional dating relationships. But she was also a movie/TV star. Even though that was all her mother ever wanted, it still wasn't enough. Thankfully, during Jeannette's run on Sam & Cat her mother died of cancer. Despite the title being somewhat of a dark joke, by the end of the book I was glad her mother died too, I just wish it had been earlier. It took Jeannette YEARS of self-destructive behavior before she finally started getting help and admitting to herself just how abusive her mother was to their family. The ending is somewhat hopeful, but this was a hard, hard read. I read hard stuff ALL THE TIME and I was glad to put this one down. After reading this book I wonder what her brothers experiences were like or if Jeannette got the worst of things since she was living her mother's dream. I felt bad for the whole family even though Jeannette's father and grandparents definitely helped enable her mother's behavior. Overall, this was a tough read and I probably would have only given it 3 stars but she is a good writer. I'll be curious what my book club members will think of this one.

A quote I liked:

"Fame has put a wedge between Mom and me that I didn't think was possible. She wanted this. And I wanted her to have it. I wanted her to be happy. But now that I have it, I realize that she's happy and I'm not. Her happiness came at the cost of mine. I feel robbed and exploited." (p. 121)



Crook Manifesto by Colson Whitehead (Books & Banter book club)

Crook Manifesto picks up with Ray Carney 4 years after Harlem Shuffle ended. Ray has decided to stay on the straight path and just run his furniture business on the up and up. But when his daughter is desperate to see the Jackson 5, he turns back to some of his shady connections to try to score tickets for her. This reopens the door to his crooked life with a bang. The book is divided into 3 sections and each section covers 3-4 years. In the first section Ray reconnects with a crooked white cop to get the concert tickets for his daughter. The second section brings back Pepper and follows his unusual security work on a movie set. The third section Ray and Pepper team up to try to track down an arsonist who injured the child of one of Ray's tenants.

I absolutely LOVED Harlem Shuffle and Ray Carney's struggle with whether to stay straight or bend toward crooked. This one was a disappointment. All the heist/criminal stories seemed really far-fetched, especially the first one with the crooked white cop. It felt very over the top and like something from a criminal action movie. The ending of the book is very ambiguous and really leaves you hanging. I know this is the second in a trilogy so that's probably on purpose. But for all the action the ending was just kind of lame. Whitehead's writing is wonderful and there were lots of great funny lines and quips, but I just didn't like this one. I will probably read #3 when it comes out just to see what does happen with Ray, but it will be hard to recommend this one.

Some quotes I liked:

[On the Carney house on Strivers Row] "Of course they were going to buy it. What else was an ongoing criminal enterprise complicated by periodic violence for, but to make your wife happy?" (p. 19)

"Carney still had the business card: Martin Green, Antiques. Why hadn't he thrown it out? Because he knew or wished a day like this might come. Crooked stays crooked." (p. 29)

"Carney had worked with the detective long enough to know he was lying, and lying about the tickets as well. It was his own fault. He had been on the straight and narrow for four years, but slip once and everybody is glad to help you slip hard. Crooked stays crooked and bent hates straight. The rest is survival." (p. 51)

"Hippie attire aside, black men generally kept their beards and mustaches fit and sharp, their Afros immaculate. These white kids walked around with stuff on their heads that - well, dead alley cats rotting behind garbage cans kept it more correct. The new shit was always upon you and you had to adjust, such was life, but the new shit came so fast these days, and it was so wily and unlikely, that he had a hard time keeping up." (p. 139)

"'I don't take money from guys like that.' Foot soldier for assholes? He'd already done that in World War II. No. A man has a hierarchy of crime, of what is morally acceptable and what is not, a crook manifesto, and those who subscribe to lesser codes are cockroaches." (p. 179)

"Poor girl makes good, was a more interesting story than suburban girl makes good, he supposed. Pepper had heard of passing for white before but passing for broke was a new one on him." (p. 194)

"Was the trio playing 'The Star-Spangled Banner'? This fucking bicentennial shit was driving Carney batty. It was inescapable, like a dome of red, white, and blue smog." (p. 214)

"Payback had healed the old crook - planning, anticipation, execution, and basking in his bloody ingenuity afterward. When her mother passed, Elizabeth got a copy of that book On Death and Dying, which identified the Five Stages of Grief. When Pepper was laid low, the Four Stages of Putting Your Foot Up Somebody's Ass provided similar comfort." (p. 278)



Disobedient Women by Sarah Stankorb

Disobedient Women is a hard but important read for any Christian. Sarah Stankorb is a journalist who has been reporting on religion and often on how people are harmed by religion. She found much of her early content from blogs in the early 2000's - the beginning of the "deconstruction" movement in evangelical Christianity. In this book she highlights several women who experienced sexual abuse in their churches and found the strength to stand up, call it out, and fight back. She covers 4 main churches/denominations - IBLP (Bill Gothard, Duggar family, and the Prime documentary Shiny Happy People), the Southern Baptist denomination, Sovereign Grace Ministries (CJ Mahaney and Joshua Harris of I Kissed Dating Goodbye fame), and Doug Wilson's Christ Church in Moscow, ID. In all of these cases there were YEARS of abuse that was covered up and not reported to the authorities. Stankorb shows how complementarian theology and purity culture creates an atmosphere that is ripe for abuse. While some of these women did see some changes or at least got out of their toxic environments, this is not a happy ending kind of book. As a Christian it is gut wrenching to read about pastors and church leadership not only BE the abusers but also hide and cover up obvious abuse and pedophilia in the name of "forgiveness" and not making their church look bad to the public. I don't know what Bible they are reading but this is NOT in there. I kept thinking of Matthew 18:5-7 that says in part "If anyone causes one of these little ones - those who believe in me - to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea..." To me it's super obvious that the common denominator with all these situation is complementarian theology. The over-arching Church needs to do better.

While I think this is well researched book and very eye-opening I was expecting something more along the lines of She Said by Jodi Kantor and Megan Twohey based on the description. I also think the book could have been divided a little better - more clearly by the denomination/church. And while I did appreciate the author's personal story as it did relate to the book and her own faith struggles, I felt that it sometimes detracted from the overall story as she did not experience faith/church abuse. Overall, it was a good book but still a hard read.

Some quotes I liked:

"Over the years as [Christa] Brown refused to back down [on asking the SBC to create a database of known abusers], she became a common recipient of SBC leaders' ire. Otherwise buttery-voiced pastors dripped venom toward her. Former SBC president Paige Patterson called SNAP [Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests] advocates (Brown was by then SNAP's Baptist director) slanderers, and thus, 'evil doers' and as 'reprehensible as sex criminals.'" (p. 78)

"The Washington Post called [Rachel] Held Evans 'the most polarizing woman in evangelicalism.' In reality, Held Evans became a voice for moderation within a religious movement sliding rapidly toward deeper extremes." (p. 82)

"In hindsight, the relative youth of the leadership team at Covenant Life, aside from Mahaney, did strike Pam as unusual. Most of the church leaders seemed to be in their twenties. They might have 'real strong gifting,' but a pastor who has never had children, giving advice to parents with teens, could mean a disconnect. 'Telling everybody what to do, without knowledge, without real experience, or education,' she elaborated. If pastors did have degrees at all, they weren't in theology." (p. 104)

"Although Mahaney took a leave of absence in summer 2011 to examine his character flaws - pride, unentreatability, deceit, and hypocrisy - by spring 2012, he'd returned and SGM moved its headquarters from Maryland to Louisville, Kentucky, close to Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and its Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (CBMW; which Mahaney joined in 2000, later serving as vice chairman)...In 2012, Covenant Life Church voted with a 93 percent majority to break away from SGM. By spring 2013, Mahaney had stepped down as president of SGM. Nearly twenty churches left the network." (p. 117-18)

"There was another, ample reason for purity culture's reconsideration. In 2016, many evangelical leaders who had taught young girls they were tempting boys into sin with front-hugs or premarital kissing appeared to develop politically motivated moral amnesia. With the promise of a president who would nominate Supreme Court justices to help overturn Roe v. Wade and other major culture war precedents, major evangelical leaders fell in line with thrice-married socialite Donald Trump." (p. 172-73)



What an Owl Knows: the new science of the world's most enigmatic birds by Jennifer Ackerman

I've always been fascinated by owls and so I was interested when I saw this book. Then I realized I had already read one of Ackerman's previous books, The Bird Way. Even though I remembered that her previous book had been pretty science-heavy, I was still interested enough in owls to check this one out. It was very interesting, but also very science-heavy and not always the easiest read. There are nine chapters that focus on different aspects of owls from how they mate and nest, raising owlets, their vocalizations, all the way to how owls are seen in different cultures (as a harbinger of death or revered as wise). I did learn a lot and I realize now just how rare and special the times I've actually seen owls in person are as owls are VERY elusive even to skilled scientists who exclusively study owls. I did really like that there were lots of pictures, both in black & white and also a section in the middle of color photos. Overall, it was an interesting book but not a quick read.

Some quotes I liked:

"It's easy to love a living tree, with its lush foliage and canopy of greenery. But snags are like skeletons. They've lost their leaves, sloughed their skin. Their bones are furrowed with insect tracks, riddled with holes, rotted at the core, and their tops are stunted and snaggled. But what life they support! More than a hundred species of birds, mammals, reptiles, and amphibians use snags for nesting, roosting, denning, and feeding, including these magnificent owls." (p. 138)

"Mott describes a nesting hollow in a tree that had been used for more than ten years by a pair of Powerful Owls. Fires ripped through the area and burned the tree from the inside out. After the fire, the pair sat in an adjacent tree. 'Large forest owls make a really obvious grieving noise when they've lost a chick,' she says. 'And they did the same thing for this tree hollow. It was quite heart-wrenching.'" (p. 142)

"In the United Kingdom, it's legal to buy a pet owl if the bird is captive bred. You don't need a license or any credentials. Moreover, owls bred in captivity can be sold without any regulation, and it's a lucrative trade. A Snowy Owl can bring in about £250. In the wake of Harry Potter, so many people bought pet owls in the UK, only to dump them after realizing the cost and complexity of caring for them, that a special animal sanctuary opened to adopt the unwanted birds." (p. 212)

[On caring for injured owls] "They restore essential flight feathers on the wing and tail through 'imping,' a remarkable technique in use since the thirteenth century in birds used for falconry. 'We clip the damaged feather near the base, leaving a hollow keratin sheath,' explains Pierce. A matching feather molted from a donor bird is cut to length and inserted into the sheath with a tiny keratin dowel and then superglued to keep it in place. 'If all goes according to plan,' she says, 'the imped feather serves as a good replacement for the original feather until the bird molts it naturally, dropping the imped feather and growing a new one.'" (p. 216-17)

"Owls can also offer surprising glimpses into the ecological past. It's an idea raised in Anthony Doerr's beautiful novel Cloud Cuckoo Land. In the sanitized virtual world he has been hired to create, the book's main character surreptitiously undermines the system by slipping in the truth in the form of little owls, 'owl graffiti, an owl-shaped drinking fountain, a bicyclist in a tuxedo with an owl mask,' writes Doerr. 'Find one, touch it, and you peel back the sanitized, polished imagery to reveal the truth beneath' - the calamities, drought, famine, and suffering of the real past. There is a deep hunch here. Owls may be mirrors of our souls, but they're also windows into what life was like long ago." (p. 267-68) [I had forgotten about that part of Cloud Cuckoo Land and how much owls played in that storyline.]



This Country: searching for home in (very) rural America by Navied Mahdavian

Navied Mahdavian and his wife Emelie were living in the San Francisco Bay Area when they visit rural Idaho and decide to buy some land there. Hoping that by living off the grid they can afford to actually work on their passions instead of jobs to pay the ever higher bills in the Bay Area. Navied is Iranian-American and so stands out even more in rural Idaho. They both seem shocked by the racism and extremely conservative political views of their neighbors. While they do make some friends and try to make it work in Idaho, once their daughter is born they decide that they don't want that ultra-conservative rural culture to be what she grows up around. So they move to Salt Lake City, Utah - no ultra-conservatism there I'm sure... This was a quick read and there were some interesting parts to their story, but I didn't love it. It felt like this was a VERY quick overview of their time there and could have been better or at least had some of the parts more fleshed out. Overall, I wouldn't recommend this one.





Emotional Labor: the invisible work shaping our lives and how to claim our power by Rose Hackman

Emotional labor is often viewed as a problem of privileged white women, but it literally affects every person on the planet - just some more than others. And often it is women who perform the majority of emotional labor. Rose Hackman does a great job of exploring the issue of emotional labor from several points of view. I personally mostly think of it as issues within a marriage or household, but she highlights aspects from service jobs, caregiving (hospital workers, childcare, and elderly care), racial identity, violence against women, how it affects men, and even how prison creates more emotional labor for the family (and often women) on the outside. I was really impressed with how broad her scope was in the book. It's frustrating to read how many people still say things like "Oh, women are just better at _____, that's why they do it." I do think Hackman gives some good suggestions and ideas for recognizing the importance of emotional labor and how to make it more equal in a variety of circumstances. I do think some of the chapters were a little long and repetitive, hence the 3 star rating. But, a good overview of all the myriad ways that emotional labor impacts us all.

Some quotes I liked:

"One of the cleverest tricks of patriarchy is that it transforms all work deemed feminine into fixed, subliminal expressions of femininity - however much work involves active time, effort, and skill. The best way to maintain a system in which women work for little to nothing, and for the benefit of others, especially men, is to convince society that they are not working at all." (p. 8)

"The point with emotional labor is not that it inherently points to an injustice. When seen, when valued or appreciated, or when part of an exchange, a mutuality, an ecosystem where love is power - then it needn't be exploitative. Quite the contrary: doing emotional labor for people who are doing it for you is the goal, not the problem." (p. 66)

"When women are told to 'smile' by a stranger on the street, they are being reminded of this through harassment. When women going about their business are accused of having a 'resting bitch face,' they are being reminded of their expected constant enthusiastic performance for the benefit of the world. A man not smiling while going about a task is never told he has a 'resting dick face.' He's likely treated as busy and important, if his expression is noted at all." (p. 87)

"As opportunities to be in the public eye have hugely expanded for women over the last decades - as previous formal barriers to public life have lifted - so, too, has the volume and level of feedback audiences inflict on them. This is true whether audiences are parents at a swim lesson, friends and acquaintances on social media, or television viewers of a political debate...This reality, instead of receding with women's legal progress, has only intensified. Today, women are more scrutinized, and more set up for humiliation than ever." (p. 92-93)

"The threat of rape and assault has a paralyzing effect on our ability to live life to its fullest, our willingness to jump on a bike, take a walk, use public transportation, explore the world. It has a paralyzing effect on our freedom...This constant lookout is a form of emotional labor that conditions us to double, triple think, to be hesitant and impose limits on ourselves and on our lives. To be a strong, empowered woman does not mean no longer taking precautions; it means making painstaking decisions about freedom versus safety, saving versus safety, economic opportunity versus safety." (p. 114-15)

"Homicide stands as the fourth leading cause of death for girls and women one to nineteen years old, and the fifth leading cause of death for women twenty to forty-four. Unlike male victims of homicide, who are mostly killed by members of the same sex, 98 percent of killers of women are men." (p. 118)

"An extraordinarily grim academic article from 2009 looked at the marital outcomes of 515 patients diagnosed with life-threatening diseases, observing groups battling malignant primary brain tumors, other forms of cancer, and multiple sclerosis...When the patient was male, and supporting spouse female, divorce happened in 2.9 percent of cases. When the patient was female and the supporting spouse was male, divorce happened in 20.8 percent of cases - it was seven times more likely to happen...the disparity is too big to brush under the carpet. It shows a severe gender gap in terms of who steps up to provide care and emotional labor in the most essential times, and an incredible gender gap in terms of who benefits." (p. 188-89)



Deadly Declarations by Landis Wade

When 96-year-old Matthew Collins dies and a hastily written will is found that revokes his previous will and leaves his fortune to Sue Ellen Parker, the most hated resident at the Indie retirement community, Collins' friends Yeager and Harriet rope in new resident and recently retired lawyer Craig Travail to help solve this mystery. But they quickly uncover a new mystery involving the Meck Dec, or Mecklenburg Declaration of Independence, that may have led to their friend's demise and could also land the three of them in even more trouble. The characters in Deadly Declarations prove that there is more to retirement communities than card games and crafts - sex, lies, secret relationships, local historical mysteries, courtroom drama, and more follow these characters throughout the novel. Several twists and turns keep you guessing until the end.

While this is not the type of book I normally read - 1) Landis Wade is a local author and has participated in library book club discussions of his book and has done several other program about writing for the library and 2) this is the book chosen by a community for their community read program and they've asked me to come speak at their event. I figured the least I could do is read the book and participate in the whole event.

Wade is a good writer. While I didn't love every aspect of the story and there were some pretty outlandish things thrown in, it was funny and well written enough to keep my attention. I loved the character of Craig Travail and how his story was told and expanded throughout the book. I did feel like a few parts were a little melodramatic and over the top - but again it kept my attention and even with some crazy things I wanted to see how everything played out in the end. Overall, it was good but not my personal cup of reading tea.