Monday, May 19, 2025

April 2025 Cookbook Reviews

 


There's Always Room at the Table by Kaleb Wyse

I wasn't familiar with Kaleb Wyse or his website wyseguide.com but now I'll have to check that out. I love that in his bio at the back of this book it says he "...documents his life on the farm and shares his expertise on subjects like cooking, gardening, and canning." This cookbook is full of "farmhouse recipes" that you'll want to try. While Wyse's approach is more Midwest than Southern, there is a lot of focus on fresh produce and homestyle recipes. There are several recipes I want to try and overall this is a solid cookbook.



Small Batch Cookies by Edd Kimber

I thought this might be a good cookbook to be able to try out some cookie recipes without making 3 or 4 dozen. But I think it's a little too small batch - I want more than 6 cookies, especially if they're good! There is a wide variety of cookies here but I personally would prefer recipes that make a dozen.




Make More With Less by Kitty Coles

I wasn't sure what to expect with this one but it was a little disappointing. To me making more with less would be focusing on leftovers or how to not waste food. This seemed to be more a collection of recipes with pantry type items. To me the categories didn't really make sense. I did like that the chapter on chicken had a recipe for stock from chicken bones, but otherwise I wasn't overly impressed with this one and didn't see any recipes I wanted to try.



When Southern Women Cook: history, lore, and 300 recipes with contributions from 70 women writers by America's Test Kitchen

"Throughout history, food and cooking have sustained women as they have carved out a place for themselves in society and their communities. This is particularly poignant when you listen to women's stories in the American South; in this book, we highlight those stories, exploring how food has enabled women to overcome adversity, provide for themselves and their families, advance society, exercise their creativity, and claim their identities." (p. x) This first few sentences in the Introduction of this comprehensive cookbook/Southern women's food history book perfectly sums up what you're about to read. This is a cookbook. But it is much more than a cookbook as well. Their are 14 chapters of recipes, but each chapter also includes LOTS of other information either about the food/recipes, historical women, and/or current women working in food in the South. The recipes are created by America's Test Kitchen but using both historical and current recipes to find either the best combination or an easier home cook recipe. This is one I will definitely buy. There are several recipes I'd like to try and I could definitely see this being a cookbook you turn to regularly.









April 2025 Reviews

 


The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store by James McBride (Books & Banter book club)

In 1972 skeletal remains are found in an old well in a formerly Jewish and Black neighborhood in Pennsylvania. Before the police can really investigate, a hurricane blows in the next day and destroys all the evidence and most of the area. But if we go back to 1936, we find out who ended up in that well and why. The whole story builds around Chona Ludlow and The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store she runs with her husband Moshe. Chona is disabled from polio but is not shy about speaking her mind and running the store the way she wants. Instead of moving away like other Jewish families have, she wants to stay in the predominately Black neighborhood and is friends with many of her customers. When a young Black child, who is deaf, needs to be hidden from authorities, Chona immediately agrees to help him. The few weeks they spend together are a highlight for both of them. But sadly, the situation also brings about a terrible situation that drastically changes things for both Chona and Dodo. There is also a colorful cast of characters that flow in and out of Chona's story and show the true nature, both good and bad, of the neighborhood.

I wasn't sure what to expect with this one because I'd had several people tell me they didn't like it or had a really hard time getting through it. I really liked it. I loved Chona and her spunk and how she wasn't afraid to stand up for what was right and important to her. I also loved Dodo and was so happy that his story didn't have the terrible ending it could have. I also loved Nate - he reminded me in some ways of Ray Carney in Harlem Shuffle. Several reviews I read complained that there were too many characters and storylines, back stories, etc. But I think they are missing the point. Chona was the center of the neighborhood and the whole cast of characters were there to show the history and culture - both the good and the bad - of the neighborhood. I thought it was clever and well written. It was also odd. They "mystery" aspect that starts the book with finding a skeleton in a well was pretty light - nobody missed that guy so there wasn't a mystery to solve. It was more of a long-running revenge/karma/comeuppance that again tied back to Chona. Is this the best book I ever read? No. Will I be thinking about these characters for a long time? Yes.

A quote I liked:

"They were a lost nation spread across the American countryside, bewildered, their yeshiva education useless, their proud history ignored, as the clankety-clank of American industry churned around them, their proud past as watchmakers and tailors, scholars and historians, musicians and artists, gone, wasted. Americans cared about money. And power. And government. Jews had none of those things; their job was to tread lightly in the land of milk and honey and be thankful that they were free to walk the land without getting their duffs kicked - or worse. Life in America was hard, but it was free, and if you worked hard, you might gain some opportunity, maybe even open a shop or business of some kind." (p. 62)



The Mango Tree: a memoir of fruit, Florida, and felony by Annabelle Tometich

This book starts with Annabelle Tometich going to court after her mother faces charges for shooting at a man who was stealing mangoes from her tree. This surprises no one who knows Jo Tometich - and after reading this book I'm surprised it hadn't happened before. Annabelle's mother, Jo, is from the Philippines and her father, Lou, was from Cape Cod, Massachusetts and they met in Florida. Jo was a driven immigrant who was desperate to make it in the US and help her family. Lou came from money and never seemed to find the motivation for a career even after he married Jo and they had children. To say the Tometich household was volatile would be a huge understatement. Annabelle grew up between two worlds - never feeling White enough and also never feeling Filipino enough. Her escape from the chaos at home was to do well in school and try to fit in any way she could. After her father's accidental death the family really struggles. As Annabelle goes off to college, then marries and has her own children she re-evaluates her mother's experiences. With her own much less dysfunctional new family, she finally has the family she always wanted. But she still has her family of origin and can finally embrace them for who they are - even if that means going to court to support her mother when she shot at someone (with a BB gun) who was stealing her beloved mangoes. As the subtitle says, "a memoir of fruit, Florida, and felony."



When Southern Women Cook: history, lore, and 300 recipes with contributions from 70 women writers by America's Test Kitchen

"Throughout history, food and cooking have sustained women as they have carved out a place for themselves in society and their communities. This is particularly poignant when you listen to women's stories in the American South; in this book, we highlight those stories, exploring how food has enabled women to overcome adversity, provide for themselves and their families, advance society, exercise their creativity, and claim their identities." (p. x) This first few sentences in the Introduction of this comprehensive cookbook/Southern women's food history book perfectly sums up what you're about to read. This is a cookbook. But it is much more than a cookbook as well. Their are 14 chapters of recipes, but each chapter also includes LOTS of other information either about the food/recipes, historical women, and/or current women working in food in the South. The recipes are created by America's Test Kitchen but using both historical and current recipes to find either the best combination or an easier home cook recipe. This is one I will definitely buy. There are several recipes I'd like to try and I could definitely see this being a cookbook you turn to regularly.



A Walk in the Park by Kevin Fedarko

Kevin Fedarko worked as a river rafting guide on the Colorado River that runs through the Grand Canyon. Fedarko makes his living as a writer, something he could do around the river guide work. His friend Pete McBride is a photographer and approaches Fedarko with an idea for them to do a thru-hike the length of the Grand Canyon and write about/photograph their journey. Even though only a handful of people have successfully done this (and many people die in the Canyon every year doing lesser hikes) Fedarko agrees. For the first segment they tag along with Rich Rudow and 3 of his friends. Rudow is an extremely experienced hiker specifically in the Grand Canyon. Yet still in that first section hike, McBride almost dies and both men realize they are in WAY over their heads. They find a group of more experienced hikers to help them both on the hikes and to prepare and eventually do complete their hike the length of the Grand Canyon.

I liked Fedarko's writing and I did want to know what happened and about their hike. He also gives a lot of background especially about historical people who first explored and/or thru-hiked the Grand Canyon. He also gave a lot of information about the Native people who call the land in and around the Grand Canyon their historical home. I've been to the Grand Canyon but have not hiked into it, so sometimes it was hard to picture the level of detail he was describing. There are a lot of pictures included in the book and that does help. Pete McBride also published a coffee table photography book from this trip so I'd like to see that to really get a feel for what they saw.

A couple takeaways: 1) I NEVER want to hike like this. Seriously, Pete almost DIED. Like a doctor told him after the fact that he was probably 1-2 hours away from going into a coma and dying. Even though he was drinking water, his electrolyte levels got too low from not replenishing the salt his body was losing through sweating. I don't know that I would have continued on after that. 2) It's just a different kind of person who enjoys pushing their body and mind to the limit like this for fun. I love being outside and seeing nature and I'd love to see some of the places they described in person. But my idea of fun is not narrowly escaping death during my "fun" times. 3) Fedarko was 38 when he started working with whitewater companies in unpaid positions during the summer - and, according to him, he sucked at it. I don't know if it was a midlife crisis or what but starting something like that at 38 seemed pretty crazy and then even more so deciding in your mid-40s to do this brutal thru-hike and being shocked at how hard it was, seemed even more crazy.

Overall, I did like the book. Some of the technical aspects of the hiking descriptions and very detailed information about the areas they hiked through did get a little old. But it was definitely an interesting book and Fedarko is now one of the small number of people who have successfully hiked the length of the Grand Canyon, which is a huge accomplishment.



Be Ready When the Luck Happens by Ina Garten

Ina Garten grew up in a very unhappy home. Her parents never really wanted to be parents and had rigid expectations for their children. There was no love or affection shown to or by anyone in the household. While she was still in high school she met her future husband Jeffrey when she and her parents went to visit her brother at Darmouth. It was love at first sight for both of them. Ina's relationship with Jeffrey changed her life for the better. He believed in her and encouraged her to try new things or work in different fields to find something that suited her. Getting married in the early 1970s Ina wasn't taught to have ambitions or work toward anything other than getting married and being a housewife. Food was something Ina was always interested in, so when she saw an ad for a specialty food store for sale in the Hamptons she went to check it out just out of curiosity. As soon as she walked into the Barefoot Contessa store she knew this was it. She and Jeffery made it work even though they were working in different states (and even different countries) for awhile. Eventually she sold the store and started writing cookbooks, then caught the eye of Food Network people and got into cooking on TV. A saying Jeffrey often said was "you don't know your good breaks from your bad breaks," basically meaning somethings things don't work out that you want but it ends up that something better is down the road. Ina never had 5-year-plans and her career trajectory worked out - she just went along was tried to Be Ready When the Luck Happens.

Several reviews I read complained A LOT about how privileged and rich she was and that's why things worked out for her. But she never talked about her family having tons of money or helping them financially. I think it was more the time and place. She and Jeffery both worked for the White House - obviously you'll make some good/important connections there. It was also a time when a couple with or without a college education could buy a really nice house for $50,000. And Jeffery did work in some very well paying jobs - Lehman Brothers, a professor at Yale, etc. If she hadn't married Jeffery or they hadn't stayed together, her life would have been very different. I think that's a lot of what this book is about - their partnership. They worked together to make a life for themselves that was very atypical for the time and that's how she built her career into what it is now. I liked the book and I thought it was well written and interesting.

Some quotes I liked:

"I loved our return policy. Usually, when you return something to a store, you get some kind of resistance. I thought this was an opportunity to be different. Every person in the store knew what to do if someone returned any item. First, you got your money back, no questions asked. Once you had you money in your hand, we'd ask what you didn't like about the product. Finally, based on the answer - you don't like a dense chocolate cake, or the cake you got was overbaked - you got something free, such as a different chocolate cake or a new cake that wasn't overbaked. People were stunned! A serious problem turned into a happy customer for life, and the cost to us was minimal." (p. 149-50)

"A lot of celebrities spent time in the Hamptons, and several came to the store. I was never starstruck until the day I looked out the window and saw a familiar - no, an iconic - woman walking down the street. Long, swinging hair, aviator glasses...'Oh my God, that's Gloria Steinem!' I announced to the girls in the store. When their response was, 'Who's that?' I knew what I had to do...I ran outside and stopped her. 'I'm so sorry,' I apologized...'Would you mind coming in for a minute? I have all these young women who work for me, and they need to know who changed their lives.'...I told the girls what she had done - that she advanced feminism, campaigned for the Equal Rights Amendment, founded Ms. magazine. 'Your mothers didn't know they had options. I didn't know. Gloria Steinem changed all of that,' I explained, wanting them to know what a difference she'd made in the lives they could lead, in the choices they could make." (p. 156-57)



One Way Back by Christine Blasey Ford

This book was already on my TBR list but I recently watched the Anita Hill episode of United States of Scandal with Jake Tapper and decided to go ahead and read this one. What's so incredibly sad and frustrating is how little has really changed since the Clarence Thomas hearing in 1991 to the Brett Kavanaugh hearing in 2018. While I feel like woman are taken a little more seriously today, are there really any more consequences for the men in power? It feels like not really. While the women like Anita Hill and Christine Ford pay the real consequences for coming forward. One Way Back is Dr. Christine Ford's story of how she decided to come forward with her allegations against Brett Kavanaugh after finding out he was a nominee for the Supreme Court. She was never trying to testify in front of Congress, she just wanted to tell the right people what happened to her so that they had the full story of this nominee. The whole process was insane with lawyers initially encouraging her to tell her story and contact Congress, then saying she shouldn't go forward, Congressmen acting like they cared about her then throwing her under the bus at the hearings, etc. She and her family had to go into hiding and hire 24/7 security during the time leading up to the hearings and she continues to get death threats to this day. And for what? Kavanaugh was still confirmed and while he did have protestors and threats as well, he's on the Supreme Court for life. Dr. Ford basically had the rug pulled out from under her and is still trying to recover.

The book was a pretty quick read but it wasn't a good time. It's depressing to see how ridiculously hard this process was and how women continue to be the ones with the worst repercussions for trying to do the right thing. It was also very sad that her immediate family wasn't very supportive of her. Her dad sent Kavanaugh's father an email congratulating him on Brett's appointment! And her brother basically quit speaking to her after this. Wow. Is is any wonder women don't come forward?! Dr. Ford had plenty of supporters and people continue to reach out to her today with their support and their own stories of assault. This is not a happy ending book but definitely worth reading. Maybe someday the tide will turn more and men in power who do bad things will actually have to face the consequences.



We Are the ARK by Mary Reynolds

Mary Reynolds wants to encourage people to do two things 1) re-wild their property (if you have some) and 2) grow some of your own food. I can get behind both of those ideas. She started the organization We are the ARK to promote planting of native plants, re-wilding areas, and growing organic food on a smaller scale. ARK stands for Acts of Restorative Kindness - these acts are to help the earth heal and nature thrive. She gives lots of tips for any size property and even to people who live in apartments or in urban areas of how they can encourage re-wilding and create ARKs in their areas. The book is beautifully illustrated but I wish there had been some pictures included of the author's ARK areas and others that she mentions. I had a hard time picturing some of the ideas she included in the book. Even though she is in Ireland, she makes a point to gives resources for the UK, US, and Canada. Overall, it was an encouraging book but it was slightly repetitive and like I said before I think some pages with photos of ARKs would add a lot to the book.



Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver (Books & Banter book club)

Damon Fields was born to a teenage mother who grew up in foster care and was an alcoholic. His father died before he was born and his mother struggled with both her sobriety and finding a decent paying job. Damon's father was of Melungeon heritage, and Damon inherited his bright red hair and darker complexion - it also earned him the nickname Demon Copperhead. Things are fine for Demon growing up even though they are poor until his mother meets Stoner when he's 10. Stoner isn't wild about dealing with Demon and after an altercation at home Demon ends up in foster care. While in his second foster home, Demon's mom dies of an overdose - one of the first wave of oxy deaths in their area. He eventually connects with his paternal grandmother who helps find him a more suitable home. But when Damon is fifteen he is injured playing football and prescribed opioid painkillers. Even taking them as prescribed he's hooked by the time the prescriptions run out. Luckily for him there are any number of ways to keep accessing pills. After more heartache and death than the average 80 year old sees in their lifetime, Damon starts to dig his way out of addiction in his late teens/early 20's. What the future holds is anyone's guess, but by the end of the book Demon's story has taken a hopeful turn for a change.

Barbara Kingsolver's retelling of David Copperfield by way of Appalachia and the opioid epidemic is brilliant. I can't think of a better written character than Demon. Literally every other page is such a brilliant line from Demon that if you marked them all the whole book would be marked up. In her book Unsheltered, I felt like Kingsolver was VERY heavy handed with her message. This is the opposite. Through Demon you see the struggles of rural, poor Appalachia, but you also see the warmth, resilience, and pride of the people of this region. She also does a great job of showing how areas like this were targeted by Perdue Pharma and how Appalachia became the first wave of the opioid tsunami. I read a LOT and this is one of the best books I've ever read. Demon and the other characters here will stay with me for a long time.

Just a couple extra great quotes:

"I had to do the harder English, which was a time suck, reading books. Some of them though, I finished without meaning to...Likewise the Charles Dickens one, seriously old guy, dead and a foreigner, but Christ Jesus did he get the picture on kids and orphans getting screwed over and nobody giving a rat's ass. You'd think he was from around here." (p. 374)

"I made him a miner, with a pick, overalls, the hard hat with the light on the front. I gave him a red bandanna like the old badass strikers that had their war. No cape, he doesn't fly, just super strong and fast, running over the mountaintops in leaps and bounds. This guy is old-school...I named my strip Red Neck. Signed, Anonymous." (p. 419)

"Is it the hardest thing I've ever done? No. Just the hardest one I had any choice about." (p. 509)

"Everything I looked at made my eyes water. It felt like being in love with somebody that's married. I could never have this. Staying here, alone and sober, was beyond my powers. And I still wanted it with all my hungry parts." (p. 530)
















Tuesday, April 15, 2025

March 2025 Cookbook Reviews


Super Italian: more than 110 indulgent recipes using Italy's healthiest foods by Giada De Laurentiis

I was not impressed with this cookbook. The subtitle of "...110 indulgent recipes using Italy's healthiest foods" made me roll my eyes a little. Everyone is trying to make healthy food "indulgent" or "sexy" or anything other than just healthy. I like Giada and I've watched her Food Network shows and use some of her recipes regularly. But I didn't really find anything in here I wanted to try. I did like that she talked about her "superfoods" and gave some info on them and also the first chapter with her essential condiments and basics. But overall, I wasn't super impressed with this one.

 

March 2025 Reviews

 


Portrait of a Thief by Grace Li (Community Read, Books & Banter, Evening Edition)

Five Chinese-American college students are invited to steal back 5 pieces of Chinese artwork. Will, the art history major at Harvard is the leader, his sister Irene studying public policy at Duke is the smooth talker who can talk her way into and out of just about anything, Lily, Irene's roommate at Duke and an underground street racer will be the getaway driver, Alex, dropped out of MIT to work for Google and will be their hacker, and Daniel, applying to med school and life-long friends with Will and Irene has an in with his father working for the FBI. Can this unlikely group of college kids pull off not one but five museum robberies without getting caught? Why does each one say yes to the secretive Chinese billionaire who hires them? What will happen if they succeed?

This is my library system's Community Read title. I had mixed feelings about the book. Parts of it I enjoyed and wanted to know what would happen next. But overall, it had a very teen angsty feel to it. About halfway through I realized it reminded me of the TV series 90210 but with older kids. In both, these teens/young adults are mostly privileged, yet constantly having existential crises along the lines of "Is this all there is to life?!" Yeah, going to Ivy League schools where you can basically write your ticket to life is SUCH a downer. A lot of the character focus was on these Chinese-America kids and their divided identity - are they Chinese enough? Are they American enough? Can they live up to their parent's American Dreams for them? These are not made up problems, but I don't see how robbing museums will fix any of that for them. The whole heist aspect was ridiculously unrealistic. If a dragon had flown in and handed them one of the Chinese zodiac heads it wouldn't have been completely out of place with the level of fantasy here. Overall, it was pretty over the top with the plot and the characters were VERY angsty and not really fully developed. If you can suspend belief enough it could be an enjoyable read.

Some quotes that stood out to me:

"...Lily in jean shorts and a battered t-shirt, her brown hair tangled from years of salt air." (p. 19) [Does she not shower or have a hair brush? Growing up at the beach doesn't change your hair texture. You can't still have salt-curled hair when you're NOT AT THE BEACH.]

"Of everyone in this crew, the two of them were here for the same reasons. Not out of a love for art, like Will, and not loyalty, like Daniel and Irene. Not even as a test of their skill. They were here because they couldn't not be, because it was a chance to be more than they were. Sometimes this heist was the only thing that made Alex feel like she existed at all." (p. 160) [I just don't get how an insane and unlikely to be successful art heist is the only thing making you feel alive.]



A Life in the Garden by Barbara Damrosch

Barbara Damrosch grew up in New York city but would visit her mother's family in Louisiana where her grandparents grew most of their own food and Damrosch was exposed to gardening. After a short marriage, Damrosch and her son moved to Connecticut to be near her parents and she rediscovered the gardening bug. She started working at an organic farm and then became a landscaper and landscape designer. In 1991 she met Eliot Coleman in Maine and soon they married and started their own small farm in Maine. Eliot Coleman is known for his 4 season gardening even in a harsh climate like Maine and has written several books about organic gardening. I wasn't familiar with his wife before stumbling on this book. It's a beautiful ode to gardening - whether you're farming for a living like them or just wanting to grow some of your own food in your yard. Damrosch is a great writer and her descriptions really bring their garden to life for the reader. The book is divided into 5 sections - Why I Grow Food, Where to Start, The Garden Year, Sharing the Garden, and What to Grow. She gives a lot of great tips and suggestions but it's not an instructional book - it's really all about A Life in the Garden. If you're not already gardening, this book will definitely inspire you!

Some quotes I liked:

"People who view gardening as backbreaking are probably using their backs when they should use their brains. It helps to vary the position as well as the task. If you're weeding, kneel on one knee, then the other, then sit, crouch, or squat. It's easy to get caught up in the project and ignore what it's doing to your body - until the next morning when you try to get out of bed." (p. 34)

"One of the most limiting factors of our country's garden culture is that it's a popular summer pastime, not a life support system. We are not used to thinking of food growing as the necessity it once was. Anywhere you lived, adaptations had to be made, by means of crop choices, storage, and protective devices, to make sure the supply was year-round." (p. 130)



The 5-Minute Gardener: year-round garden habits for busy people by Nicole Johnsey Burke

Nicole Burke wrote The 5-Minute Gardener for busy people like herself who want to garden and grow their own food but feel like they don't have the time they need. Her premise is that in 5-minutes a day you can grow some of your own food. I picked this one up because I'm always looking at gardening books to get ideas. I also tend to procrastinate (or time just gets away from me) when it comes to my garden so I thought this book could help me work on the garden year-round in smaller increments.

What I liked:
She doesn't organize the book by Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter. Instead she organizes it by Cold Season, Cool Season, Warm Season, and Hot Season - because the months that these fall for you will be different depending on where you live. I really liked that. Also, she emphasizes you don't have to start at the "right" time - just start in whatever season you're currently in and do a few things, then build up over time.

What I didn't like:
She is VERY into sprouts and microgreens, which is fine, but that was a LOT of the daily 5 minute suggestions and recipe suggestions, especially in the cold and cool season chapters. It's also pretty repetitive overall. I found myself kind of skimming toward the end because the tips and suggestions were almost all the same just with different plants depending on the season.

Overall, it does have some good tips. If you're into sprouts and microgreens you will definitely enjoy this one. I found the book too repetitive for me personally but I do think it highlights that you can do a little something everyday to create a garden or build up good habits.



The Owl Handbook: investigating the lives, habits, and importance of these enigmatic birds by John Shewey

Owls are such fascinating birds and in The Owl Handbook you will learn all about them. The book is divided into 5 chapters - the first is owl facts and fictions, LOTS of info about owls and how they have been perceived throughout history, the second chapter is more detailed information about the owls of the US and Canada, the third chapter is about owling or trying to spot or photograph owls in the wild, the fourth chapter is about how to help owls, and the last chapter is a less detailed listing of many other owl species from around the world. Throughout the book there are TONS of great photographs and information. Prior to reading this, I didn't realize that owls would eat other owls! There is also a lot of great information in the "give a hoot" chapter about how to help owls or create better environments for them in your yard/community. Overall, this is a really great book and one I might buy just for all the great photographs. If you're interested in owls this is definitely worth checking out.



Men Who Hate Women: from incels to pickup artists: the truth about extreme misogyny and how it affects us all by Laura Bates

This is not a fun read AT ALL. But it is a necessary read. Laura Bates explores several of the main groups of Men Who Hate Women - everything from incels, Pick Up Artists, Men's Rights Activists and much more is covered. I was familiar with some of the groups she talked about but honestly the chapter on "men who don't know they hate women" was by far the most disturbing to me because this was middle- and high-school age boys who are being exposed to misogynist content via YouTube and not even realizing how wrong and messed up it is. After reading a book like this you have to remind yourself that the internet is also a good thing because this REALLY highlights a big chunk of the bad side of the internet. Misogyny and sexism isn't dying out with the Boomers - it's getting revamped via the internet for a whole new generation. Bates does have a few suggestions in the last chapter, but overall this book is not a happy one and doesn't give tons of hope at the end either. But, this is reality and everyone should read this book so that you're aware of the scope of this issue and try to combat it when/if you can.

Some quotes I liked:

"In the small flurry of online articles that has emerged about incel groups, particularly in the wake of mass killings, there are two clear, polarized groups. The community is either characterized as darkly violent and misogynistic, dangerously promoting violence against women, or as a mischaracterized and disadvantaged group of lonely men, widely smeared by association with a tiny number of bad apples who could exist in any movement. The reality, which almost nobody seems to have confronted, is that both stories are true. That extended exposure to the violent rhetoric of the most extreme ideologues slowly desensitizes and draws in other members too. And it is this combination that is perhaps most explosive of all." (p. 48)

"As I spent hours poring through these posts, I realized just how much offline impact it can have when men are immersed in incel forums day in, day out. And I started to register just how many of the stories men told about manifesting incel ideas in their daily lives echoed and matched the thousands of stories I receive every year from women who are being harassed, assaulted, and abused." (p. 53)

"But what MGTOW [Men Going Their Own Way] has in common with the majority of the other groups that make up the manosphere, perhaps best exemplified by MGTOW itself, is the special quality of being a group supposedly exclusively devoted to men whose near-total focus is women. In the case of MGTOW, this fundamental dichotomy builds inevitable self-destruction into the very core of the movement. It is, one imagines, very difficult for a man to release himself completely from the toxic and damaging impact of women and all they represent - blissfully freeing himself to live a life of simple, manly fulfillment - while remaining entangled within a community feverishly obsessed with, well, women." (p. 100)

"So when we tell women to simply switch off, spend less time online, or stop visiting certain websites, what we are really saying is that they, not their harassers, should suffer the negative consequences of trolling. They, not the trolls, should be excluded from hostile spaces. Like Lee-Kennedy was compelled to, we are suggesting women should sacrifice their careers as the price for escaping online abuse. There is also a real lack of public understanding of the psychological impact such abuse can have, even in the absence of physical harm." (p. 156)

"Yet some of the world's biggest social media platforms repeatedly throw up their hands and imply that the problem is too difficult to solve, claiming to be taking extensive action against harassment but also refusing to disclose detailed reports of their records or procedures for tackling it. They release polished PR platitudes about working hard to keep everybody safe online, even as women reporting rape and death threats or graphic images of sexual violence are receiving automated responses telling them that the content 'doesn't violate our community standards.' These are companies with an income equivalent to some small countries. The idea that they couldn't tackle this problem robustly if they wanted to or certainly make enormous improvement very swiftly is laughable." (p. 161-62)

"Writing in the New York Times, sociologist Zeynep Tufekci described how, no matter what average video she started out with, YouTube's algorithm would quickly send her down a spiraling rabbit hole of associated but far more hardcore content. 'Videos about vegetarianism led to videos about veganism. Videos about jogging led to videos about running ultramarthons,' A Wall Street Journal investigation revealed the same phenomenon." (p. 277)

"Then there are the ways in which online abuse, underestimated and repeatedly belittled, bleeds into offline abuse. It is a reality consistently ignored in the response from authorities. The lackluster reaction to online threats against female politicians. The dismissal of cyberstalking as a tool used by bullying ex-partners, until an escalation from online to offline violence proves fatal and intervention is too late. As case after case reveals that the police have missed opportunities to intervene before women are murdered by their stalkers, frequently failing to join the dots between multiple incidents and forms of harassment, these are very real concerns." (p. 322)



The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune (Evening Edition)

Linus Baker works for the Department in Charge of Magical Youth (DICOMY) as a case worker. His whole life is boring and dreary but he does feel a responsibility to the children in his cases. He is summoned by Extremely Upper Management to go on a secret assignment to check up on a secret orphanage for magical children. The six children in this orphanage are some of the most extreme magical youth Linus has seen - the Antichrist, a were-pomeranian, a wyvern, a gnome, a sprite, and an unidentified green blob. Their caretaker, Arthur Parnassus, is fiercely protective of the children. He is also hiding his own secret that could threaten the future of the Marsyas Island orphanage. Linus goes in intending to be objective and do his job - but in a month he begins to really connect with each of the children and Arthur. The House in the Cerulean Sea is a beautifully written, feel-good story that highlights the importance of found family, community, and acceptance.

I had only heard good things about this book but I tried to not have too high of expectations. I did love it. Was it somewhat predictable and obvious? Yes. I've also read there has been controversy after Klune said in a podcast that his inspiration was somewhat based on the Sixties Scoop - in Canada when Indigenous children were essentially kidnapped and adopted out to White families or kept away from their families and cultures in Indian schools. Most of the backlash has been about Klune being White and "taking" a story that's not his to tell and turning it into a sci/fi/romance book. I personally didn't see an obvious link between this book and what's happened in both Canada and the US to Indigenous people/children. I could see almost any "other" group being the inspiration. The "see something, say something" posters reminded me more of the McCarthyism/anti-communist period in the US. I'm personally not going to hold Klune's inspiration against him. I liked the book. It had a lot of good messages and I LOVED the children - especially Chauncey, Theodore, and Sal. Even though I don't read a ton of fiction anymore, I'll definitely pick up the sequel to see what happens next on Marsyas Island.













Saturday, March 1, 2025

February 2025 Cookbook Reviews

 


Start With a Vegetable by Jessica Smith

I'm not a vegetarian but I do love vegetables and don't mind a meatless meal now and then. This book isn't pushing a vegetarian agenda - just showcasing how you can use vegetables in different ways. The recipes could be a side dish or a main dish. The author does include a chapter at the beginning about a few plant proteins but most of the dishes just focus on vegetables without pushing a specific diet agenda. I also liked that the recipes are organized by vegetable. There are also a few chapters at the end that were different - pizza night, sauces/dressings/extras, and meal plans using the recipes in the book. The author also gives some great tips at the beginning including a vegetable storage guide (which need to be refrigerated, best storage, etc.). Overall, I thought this was a great cookbook and there are several recipes I'd like to try.



The Modern Pioneer Cookbook by Mary Shrader

If you're looking to make more food from scratch this cookbook has a lot of info on making basics - stocks/bone broth, rendering fat, yogurt, pickles, and bread. There are also chapters on condiments and homemade drinks. While all of that is great, I agree with some other reviews I read that there aren't very many actual meal recipes - just one chapter at the very end. While you can do a lot with the basics that Shrader focuses on, I do think having more meal recipes would be helpful. I personally already can and make my own stock, bread, etc. I do think this would be great for someone starting out trying to make more homemade food but I do with there were more recipes using the basics. I also found the font and layout of the pages odd - it was almost large print and the margins seemed very small as well.



Simply Jamie by Jamie Oliver

I've always liked Jamie Oliver but I didn't love this cookbook. It's organized into normal cookbook categories - midweek meals, weekend wins, one pan dinners, pantry love, and delicious desserts. But within these chapters the recipes still felt kind of random or oddly organized. I also felt like the pictures of Jamie in the cookbook were weird - did he see these and approve them? The pictures of the food were great and a lot of the recipes did seem pretty easy to make. I just didn't find much that I wanted to try from this one.







February 2025 Reviews

 


Custodians of Wonder by Eliot Stein

Eliot Stein travels the world interviewing people who are some of the last people keeping a custom or tradition alive. He explores 10 traditions - everything from how they began, the cultural significance, and the person who's currently still keeping that tradition alive. It's everything from a very unique musical instrument, a sacred pasta recipe, to the mailman who delivers mail to a tree in the German woods and beekeepers who continue to practice of "telling the bees." As some reviews I read mentioned, Stein often gives a LOT of background or history. While some history is necessary, I do think it could have been cut down more and the reader still gotten the gist. Overall, I did really like the book - some traditions more than others. I also found myself googling some of the traditions to see what exactly these things looked like. I think a few pictures could have helped too. Stein does a good job of exploring the concept of tradition and why some traditions are worth keeping despite advances in technology. A unique and interesting book.

Some quotes I liked:

"According to modern tests conducted by MIT professor and structural engineer Dr. John Ochsendorf, the Q'eswachaka's four base cables can support 9,388 kilograms - or roughly 110 men spaced evenly apart. And unlike the arched stone bridges of Europe, the Inca's grass-woven creations could quickly be cut as a defensive measure to avoid advancing armies, and then rebuilt. In some cases, the very sight of these engineering wonders was enough to force foreign clans to surrender...They stitched cotton and alpaca wool between layers of leather to make armored helmets and body suits that were lighter and nearly as strong, pound for pound, as Spanish steel. These quilted garments were so effective at stopping fired arrows that conquistadors adopted them during the conquest and reported leaving battles with so many projectiles lodged into them that they looked like porcupines...The Inca even communicated in fiber, relying on a sophisticated system of colored-and-spun knotted cords called quipus to store information. These intricate necklace-looking webs could hold hundreds of strings and record decimals up to 10,000. In the absence of a written language, the Inca used quipus for everything from documenting family genealogy and sending military orders to measuring state taxes and taking the census." (p. 73-74)

"'Sardinia is one of the richest grain cultures in the world, and each of its 377 villages and towns has their own unique type,' said Michelin-starred Sardinian chef Roberto Petza, who has dedicated his career to spreading awareness of Sardinian ingredients and documenting the island's rural pasta traditions. 'There are roughly 700 types of pasta in all of Italy. In Sardinia alone, there are 500, and that is a direct result of our history of invasions and mixing those influences with our own recipes.'" (p. 109)

"Scientists have found that the way individual bees work together in the hive is similar to how individual neurons function in the human brain, and the colony's collective decision-making has all the hallmarks of our most harmonious societies." (p. 186)

"Over the next 14 years, Gonzalez Martinez would go on to write 18 more novels in notebooks and stationary, just so she could read them aloud to the factory's 130 workers. None of them are published. Instead, after cooking dinner, cleaning the house, and putting her daughter to bed, the reader would get to work writing in longhand until 2:00 a.m. and then recite each chapter to her audience later that day before she's finished writing the book. 'Based on their reactions as I read it, I'd change the plot to surprise them or create an ending I thought they'd really like,' she said. 'In a way, the workers became like my editors.'...Then in 2003, after 14 years of only sharing her writing with her colleagues at the leaf-stripping factory, the lector learned that one of her books was finally going to be published...Gonzalez Martinez has since gone on to publish nine children's books in Cuba, winning four national awards for her work." (p. 212-13)



Slow Productivity by Cal Newport

I really liked Newport's previous book, Digital Minimalism, so I was interested to check out this one. While I like the premise of getting away from pseudo-productivity (tons of meetings, emails, phone calls, etc.) to more well-done Slow Productivity, this book is not geared towards everyone's career. I'm a public librarian and while I do spend a decent amount of time in front of a computer, I'm also expected to work a public service desk and present in person programs. Newport acknowledges that this is more for "knowledge work" but I do think some of the principles could still apply to other fields. My main complaint is that most of his examples are of people who were able to take months of time off to focus on their art/writing/whatever or freelance/self-employed people who have MUCH more control over their work time than the average person. But I do think he makes some interesting points and really what I think it boils down to is whether you're willing to go against the mainstream flow and make your own way (even in a more traditional career path). If you ARE self-employed or have more control of your own schedule, then I would highly recommend this one as it probably applies to you more than me.

Some quotes I liked:

"As Michael Pollan summarizes in an insightful 2003 article about Slow Food, by the 1980s Carlo Petrini had become 'dismayed by the hangdog dourness of his comrades on the left.' There's a personal satisfaction in grimly pointing out the flaws in a system, but sustainable change, Petini came to believe, requires providing people with an enjoyable and life-affirming alternative. Petrini didn't simply write a sharply worded op-ed about the corruptive forces of McDonald's, he instead promoted an appealing new relationship with food that would make fast food seem self-evidently vulgar. 'Those who suffer for others do more damage to humanity than those who enjoy themselves,' Petrini explained." (p. 33)

"As previously argued, for most of recorded human history, the working lives of the vast majority of people on earth were intertwined with agriculture, a (literally) seasonal activity. To work without change or rest all year would have seemed unusual to most of our ancestors. Seasonality was deeply integrated into the human existence." (p. 139)



The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

I had heard so much about this book that I decided to read it even though I don't have children. In The Anxious Generation, Jonathan Haidt looks at why Gen Z and younger are struggling so much with mental health, anxiety, failure to launch, etc. From the research that he sites there seems to be a direct correlation between smartphones/social media and the increase in anxiety and mental health issues with kids who had what he calls a "phone-based childhood" instead of a "play-based childhood." A lot of what he says makes a lot of sense. Since the 1990's kids have been much more scheduled - tons of after school activities, sports, tutoring, etc. instead of just downtime and free play. But there are other factors beyond just smartphone use - society has changed. People don't know their neighbors so they're not as comfortable letting their kids free range and play outside. People are much more litigious so schools/counties/etc. make sure playgrounds are super safe so kids can't get hurt and people are afraid to discipline or intervene with stranger's children so there's not as much of a sense of community anymore. There is no easy answer for any of these issues. But Haidt has some good suggestions - his main 4 are: 1) no smartphones before high school, 2) no social media before 16, 3) phone-free schools, and 4) more unsupervised play and childhood independence.

There were a LOT of mixed reviews about this book. Again, I'm not a parent but I grew up in the 1980's and spent most of my free time outside and in the woods with other kids. I'm SO thankful to have NOT grown up with social media and smartphones. While you may not agree with everything Haidt says or how he used research for this book, I don't think many people could really argue against his 4 suggestions. He mentioned very little about pornography but that's the area I'm most worried about. Young kids having access to/being exposed to hardcore pornography is going to change things in devastating ways - but that could be another whole book. Overall, I liked the book and I thought his main suggestions seem reasonable and good. Even if you're not a parent, a worthwhile read.

Some quotes I liked:

"As soon as Gen Z arrived on campus, college counseling centers were overwhelmed. The previously exuberant culture of millennial students in discover mode gave way to a more anxious culture of Gen Z students in defense mode. Books, words, speakers, and ideas that caused little or no controversy in 2010 were, by 2015, said to be harmful, dangerous, or traumatizing. America's residential universities are not perfect, but they are among the safest, most welcoming and inclusive environments ever created for young adults. Yet campus culture changed around 2015, not just in the United States but also at British and Canadian universities." (p. 71-72)

"One of the most widely noted traits of Gen Z is that they are not doing as much of the bad stuff that teenagers used to do. They drink less alcohol, have fewer car accidents, and get fewer speeding tickets. They have far fewer physical fights or unplanned pregnancies. These are, of course, wonderful trends - nobody wants more car accidents. But because the rate of change for so many risky behaviors has been so rapid, I also look at these trends with concern. What if these changes came about not because Gen Z is getting wiser, but because they are withdrawing from the physical world? What if they are engaging in less risk-taking overall - healthy as well as unhealthy - and therefore learning less about how to manage risks in the real world?" (p. 181-82)

[Louisiana mandated a law in 2023 that would require age verification for access to pornography websites] "The law required sites whose content is more than one-third pornography to verify its visitors were over 18, using the state's digital wallet app to present their Louisiana driver's license. Of course, few visitors to a porn site would be willing to give the site their legal name, let alone an image of their driver's license. In response, Pornhub simply blocked access to its site from residents who appear to be in Louisiana." (p. 237) [In my opinion, Louisiana has some CRAZY laws and stuff going on in their state but this one I can support!]

[A school in South Carolina started offering longer recesses, opening the school playground half an hour before school started, and a "play club" open access to the playground or gym after school and the benefits to the students was remarkable.] "Compared with the previous year, truancy cases went from a total of 54 down to 30, and school bus violation incidents dropped from 85 to 31. 'In any given school year we used to have around 225 office referrals,' Kevin [Stinehart] reported. 'But now that we've added so much play we only have around 45.'" (p. 253)



How the World Eats by Julian Baggini

I picked this book up because I read a lot about food and farming. At first I was liking it but then he kind of seemed to lose to plot (for me at least). I agree with his premise that, "A food system needs to be underpinned with principles, and if we are not clear what they are, they will often default to values we may not hold to be the highest, such as economic efficiency, convenience and productivity." (p. 41) The book is divided into 4 categories - land, people, other animals, and technology. In each, Baggini looks at how people have eaten both historically and today and what we can learn from these food cultures in order to attempt to shape a global food philosophy. Still sounds great, but in my opinion it was a little all over the place. I also felt like he didn't show much in the way of farmers/cultures doing things well - more of don't do this or the ones that he highlighted as doing well were things that couldn't be reproduced (like Native Inuit or Hadza hunter/gatherers). In the end his seven principles of a global food philosophy won't stand up to actual implementation because of one thing - money. Corporations will NEVER do better if it means they make less money and for the most part our current food system in most of the world is a business for making money. Overall, there were some parts I liked, some I had to drag myself through. I'm not a philosopher or into philosophy so maybe I'm not the intended reader. But I am VERY into food, farming, and humane meat so this should appeal to someone like me.

Some quotes that stood out to me:

Quotes I liked:

"But it should at least give pause for thought: is disgust at meat eating really a sign of a more civilised society or simply a mark of one that has become detached from the realities of life and death?" (p. 15)

"The right goal is for people to have enough money to eat, not for food to be made so cheap that even the destitute can afford to eat it and only the desperate are willing to produce it." (p. 116)

Quotes I disagree with:

"Now, for the first time, we have the option of a vegan future. If we do not take it, our continued use of livestock and the methods we use to rear them will both stand in need of justification." (p. 258) [NOT everyone who eats meat, eats industrial, CAFO meat - I will NOT become vegan and I will continue to support local farmers doing things in regenerative ways.]

"If you are regularly working with glyphosate, concerns about the health risks of your exposure are legitimate, but as someone who eats food made from glyphosate-treated GM crops, there is no good evidence that your health is at risk." (p. 269) [I vehemently disagree with this. We have NO idea what this stuff is doing over time, to children, etc. Glyphosate and Monsanto don't need to be ANY part of any food system.]