Tuesday, September 22, 2020

May 2020 Reviews

 


Farmstead Chef by John Ivanko and Lisa Kivirist

So, on Hoopla this book is described as a collection of essays, but in the introduction the authors call it a cookbook and it was definitely both. Basically, this is a cookbook geared toward eating and preserving local, seasonal food. But, it's also a collection of essays by the authors about their journey from city folks to full time farmers. I really liked the essays and pretty much agree with them almost 100% on their food philosophy and anyone who quotes Joel Salatin gets points from me. There were also several recipes I'd like to try. My only complaint is that being an ebook I didn't get to see all the pictures of the recipe food as you might in a print book. There were some pictures, but often the ebook is a different experience. Overall, I did like it and it was a solid cookbook and collection of food essays.

Some quotes I liked:

"This cookbook redefines healthy eating in a way that reaches out to a more balanced worldview on food beyond calorie count and fat-free or 'meat-free' fake food. There's sugar, flour and salt in many of our recipes. Cheese and butter, too. No swearing off alcohol or caffeine..." (p. 14)

"This reality of third-party food providers, combined with a growing awareness of what's happening to the planet and how we treat our animals, the land and the farmers, has spawned a diverse range of declared dietary preferences, from omnivore to vegan to locavore to flexitarian - and now, there's someone we call the farmsteadtarian, a person who eats as much as possible from their own gardens, community and, when necessary, from carefully selected sources as close to the farmers, ranchers, food artisans, beekeepers, brewers or growers as possible." (p. 16-17)



Book Girl by Sarah Clarkson

Books were always a part of Sarah Clarkson's life. Her parents encouraged (and modeled) reading all kinds of books to Sarah and her siblings. Clarkson was so passionate about reading that she ended up studying how reading affects children and their development and ended up writing two books about that topic. When she became pregnant with her daughter she was reflecting on what books shaped her as a girl and what books she would want to share with her daughter - and this book was born. The book has 10 chapters that focus on one aspect of how reading shaped her and then two book lists that fit into that chapter's focus.

I LOVE reading and have enjoyed it since I was a child and also had parents who modeled reading as well (not quite to the extent of Clarkson's parents though). But, I read all kinds of books and as I've gotten older I have particularly come to love non-fiction. I felt like Clarkson had a lot of good points in this book, but it was very repetitive. She loves C.S. Lewis, Classic Fiction, theology books, Wendell Berry, and Elizabeth Goudge. If any of these are your favorites, you will LOVE this book, but for me it just got repetitive. If one or more of these was not in every single list in the book I would be surprised. This book is written as a Christian book to show how reading (not just the Bible) can help shape your life and faith, but I personally don't think just Christian books can do that. There was very little in any of the lists that weren't Christian authors or themes. And again, that's great and I do read those kind of books, but not exclusively. Overall, I didn't love this one. But, she loves L.M. Montgomery and Anne of Green Gables as much as me and quoted an Andrew Peterson song so I added an extra star just for that.

Here are some quotes I liked:

"Reading, whether you are four or twenty-four, provides you with the words and comprehension to encounter a new idea and understand it; to walk forward into new subjects, new facts, new possibilities, and thus a constantly expanding self." (p. 42)

"...I am convinced that great children's books, in their clarity of language, in the disciplined simplicity of their themes, bear as much insight into the workings of the human heart and its desires as the great adult classics. But they manage to do all that while being accessible to a child's wonder and innocence." (p. 72)

"What this suggested to the researchers is that reading allows us to place ourselves in another's shoes, seeing the world through another's eyes, empathizing with views different from our own." (p. 157)

"One of Andrew Peterson's songs ('Shine Your Light on Me') recounts the way his friends once were 'singing out my song / when the song in me had died,' and I often feel that this is the grace of memoirs. They sing and speak what needs expression, and sometimes rescuing, within us." (p. 171)



The Breakdown by B. A. Paris

Cass has been having a hard time ever since the night she took the shortcut home and saw a woman in a car on the side of the road. The next day she finds out that the woman was murdered and that she actually knew her. Cass knows she should have called the police when she got home, but she had promised her husband she wouldn't take the shortcut when she's alone. Now her guilt is eating her up, but then she starts getting weird phone calls and feels like she's being watched. Then she starts forgetting things both big and small and feels like she's losing her mind. Her mother was diagnosed with dementia at 44, so Cass is constantly worried it might happen to her, so is it now?

As other reviewers have said, with so few characters there are not a lot of options for who the killer is and/or who is targeting Cass. But, I will say I was surprised at who the actual killer was and their motivation. It's obvious from chapter one that her husband is involved in some way, but the ending was still a surprise for me as far as the killer goes. But, Cass wasn't a likable character and parts of the book did drag with her irrational fear and freak outs. But, I read the last 2/3 of the book in one sitting once she figured out what was going on and how she was going to handle it. Overall, it wasn't amazing - it was no Gone Girl, but it was entertaining enough.



Ghettoside: a true story of murder in America by Jill Leovy

Almost every day someone is killed in Los Angeles County and the majority of the time that person murdered is a black man. These murders rarely even make the news and are often left unsolved. Why is that? What can be done to change these terrible statistics? In Ghettoside one case is followed from start to finish and is actually solved and the murderers arrested, convicted, and imprisoned. The case follows Detective John Skaggs as he tries to solve the homicide of Bryant Tennelle - an eighteen-year-old young black man with no gang ties or criminal involvement, who is also the son of another LAPD Detective. Jill Leovy explores why there is so much violence in Los Angeles County and just how hard it can be to solve these everyday murders even when there are dozens of eye-witnesses. She argues that for disenfranchised populations the law is often more harshly applied for smaller crimes, yet less harshly applied for murders - a practice known as "victim discounting." And there is often a "shadow law" that has developed where instead of going to the police family members or friends "take care of things" themselves and the cycle continues - often killing innocent bystanders in the process. I found the first half of the book very interesting. Once the book started to focus more on solving the case of Bryant Tennelle it got a little repetitive and overly detailed. A lot of the book focuses on Detective John Skaggs and how his tenacious work ethic allowed him to solve most of his cases, but including 10+ pages on one suspect interview was a little much. You could get the feel for how he worked without so much detail and word-for-word dialogue.

This is a sad, hard book. While Bryant Tennelle's family got justice, they didn't get their son back. And him being the son of a police detective the odds were higher that the police would work to get that case solved. Other cases were discussed in the book, but as one person told Wally Tennelle (Bryant's father) when he was in training that every murdered person is "some daddy's baby" not a prostitute or gang banger, but a life that was tragically cut short. While there are no answers in this book, I think it was an interesting look behind the curtain of just how hard it is to solve these crimes in South Central LA and how complicated the violence is as well.

Some quotes I liked:

"Many critics today complain that the criminal justice system is heavy-handed and unfair to minorities. We hear a great deal about capital punishment, excessively punitive drug laws, supposed misuse of eyewitness evidence, troubling high levels of black male incarceration, and so forth. So to assert that black Americans suffer from too little application of the law, not too much, seems at odds with common perception. But the perceived harshness of American criminal justice and its fundamental weakness are in reality two sides of a coin, the former a kind of poor compensation for the latter...our criminal justice system...hauls masses of black men through its machinery but fails to protect them from bodily injury and death. It is at once oppressive and inadequate." (p. 9)

"Yet the statistical truth was undeniable, and most Americans understood it intuitively even if they didn't talk about it polite company. There was something in the way the nation acquiesced in shooting and stabbings among 'inner city' black men that suggested these men were expendable - or, worse, that perhaps the nation was better off without them." (p. 11)

"It was often not in the news. 'I remember a banner headline in the Los Angeles Times one weekend,' recalled a detective named Paul Mize. 'A bomb in Beirut had killed six people. We had nine murders that weekend, and not a one of them made the paper. Not one.'" (p. 38)

"This practice of using 'proxy crimes' to substitute for more difficult and expensive investigations was widespread in American law enforcement...They would hear the name of a shooter, only to find the couldn't 'put a case' on him because no witnesses would testify. So they would write a narcotics warrant - or catch him dirty. 'We can put them in jail for drugs a lot easier than on an assault. No one is going to give us information on an assault,' explained Lou Leiker, who ran the detective table in Southeast in the early aughts. To them, proxy justice represented a principled stand against violence. It was like a personalized imposition of martial law." (p. 141)

"It might not seem self-evident that impunity for white violence against blacks would engender black-on-black murder. But when people are stripped of legal protection and placed in desperate straits, they are more, not less, likely to turn on each other. Lawless settings are terrifying; if people can do whatever they want to each other, there are always enough bullies to make it ugly." (p. 155)

"That change perhaps has been aided in part by a related development - an increase in public benefits paid to poor black people, particularly men, primarily in the form of SSI (Supplemental Security Income, a payment available to people with disabilities). One reason for this is prison reform. The federal Second Chance Act in 2005 inspired new efforts to provide SSI to prisoners upon reentry; many prisoners qualify, since a third of the state's inmates have been diagnosed with mental illness. As we have seen, autonomy counters homicide. Cold cash paid out to individuals is a powerful thing: this author has watched SSI transform many aspects of life in South Central Los Angeles over about a decade, but the change for indigent black men has been especially dramatic...An eight-hundred-dollar-a-month check for an unemployed ex-felon makes a big difference in his life. The risks and benefits of various hustles surely appear different to him. He can move, ditch his homeys, commit fewer crimes, walk away from more fights." (p. 317)



Little House in the Big Woods by Laura Ingalls Wilder

In the 1870's the Ingalls family lives in the deep woods of Wisconsin. Laura, her older sister Mary, and her younger sister Carrie live with their Ma and Pa. Pa hunts, traps, and farms while Ma keeps the house, kids, cooks, and cleans. Laura and Mary spend a lot of time playing outside except in the winter. While there are lots of dangerous animals in the Big Woods, the girls feel safe in their cabin with Ma and Pa. Most nights they fall asleep to Pa playing his fiddle and singing at the end of the day.

Little House in the Big Woods sets the stage for the Ingalls family that is followed in the rest of the series by Laura Ingalls Wilder. I read these books as a child and LOVED them and my Mom actually made me a Laura Ingalls Wilder costume for Halloween one year. In recent years there has been some controversy over these books, namely that Laura's daughter, Rose, was the real author of the series, and that there is racist language especially toward Native Americans in some of the later books. My opinion may change as I keep going, but I feel like the tone is consistent with the time period it was written, not overtly racist on purpose. Overall, I'm excited to re-read these childhood favorites and I think children today could still enjoy this introduction to Laura and the series.

A quote I liked:

"Mary was bigger than Laura, and she had a rag doll named Nettie. Laura had only a corncob wrapped in a handkerchief, but it was a good doll. It was named Susan. It wasn't Susan's fault that she was only a corncob." (p. 20-21)



Farmer Boy by Laura Ingalls Wilder

Farmer Boy follows a year in the young life of Almanzo Wilder, who will marry Laura Ingalls when they are adults. Almanzo has a very different upbringing than Laura. His parents own a large farm and seem fairly well-off for the time and place. But their everyday life is WORK. While the book is written in a way that makes it seem like fun and Almanzo definitely loves most of the work he does on the family farm, it highlights how much easier we have things today. But, I remember reading these books as a child and being fascinated with how they did everything back then. And reading it again as an adult I'm amazed at how this much detailed work is written to make it sound fun. That is really talented writing for children.

My favorite two scenes in this book are 1) when the stray dog shows up and ends up keeping the family from being robbed and 2) when the children spend a week at home alone and Almanzo throws blacking on the fancy parlor wall and his sister patches the wallpaper to cover it up for him.

I don't know if the series numbers changed at all since I read them as a child, but I remember reading Farmer Boy closer to the end of the series when I read these books the first time. But, I do like "meeting" both Laura and Almanzo in the first two books, I think that actually does work better as it's more chronologically correct.


April 2020 Cookbooks

 


The Asheville Bee Charmer Cookbook by Carrie Schloss

I've been to the Asheville Bee Charmer store in Asheville, NC several times and it's an amazing store. So, I was excited to check out this cookbook all about using honey. But, the Bee Charmer store offers lots of varieties of honey that have specific flavor profiles and that is how the cookbook is focused. I don't know how the recipes would do if you used honey other than the varieties/flavors specified. I felt like it was a little too specific in the flavors/types of honey needed for the recipes. Maybe if you live in Asheville and could buy some of the specific varieties to use with these recipes, but for the average person I felt like it was too specific. But, if you're ever in Asheville definitely check out the Asheville Bee Charmer store!

April 2020 Reviews

 


Chase Darkness With Me by Billy Jensen

Billy Jensen was always interesting in crime stories and ended up becoming a journalist writing about unsolved crimes. After the unexpected death of his friend Michelle McNamara (author of I'll Be Gone in the Dark) he decided to change his focus and started working to solve crimes himself. He used social media to send targeted posts to areas where the crimes occurred with photos and video of the suspects. He was able to solve several cold cases this way. He also helped finish McNamara's book on the Golden State Killer after her death and the final chapter of his book covers the night he found out the Golden State Killer had been arrested by police - the perfect way to end this book. Jensen is a great writer and once I started reading this book I did not want to put it down. While he covers a LOT of cases and information, the book still flows and reads well. I will definitely be on the lookout for more by him - he should start working on a book about Terry Rasmussen (one of the cases he covers here) who could be linked to dozens of unsolved murders. If you're a true crime fan, this is a must read!



Where I Come From: life lessons from a Latino chef by Aaron Sanchez

I was familiar with Aaron Sanchez from seeing him as a judge on Chopped, but I didn't realize his history with both cooking and on television. Sanchez's mother was a pioneering Mexican chef who made a name for herself in New York City long before most people were familiar with Mexican food. Early on Sanchez realized food was his calling and he started in the cooking world pretty young. He worked in several restaurants and several different cuisines before opening his own restaurants. He gives a timeline of his restaurant experience and how hard it can be to open your own restaurant. I felt bad for his short-lived marriage and that he didn't get to be with his son all the time, especially since that was his own experience with his dad too. I really appreciated the last chapter of the book about the #metoo movement and how that has impacted the restaurant industry. I also appreciated his openness about his depression and how he did get help - that is something that needs to be talked about more openly as well. There are recipes included throughout the book as well. Overall, I liked it, but didn't love it. But, I do want to see if I can find the episode of Iron Chef America where he tied with Morimoto!



Yale Needs Women: how the first group of girls rewrote the rules of an ivy league giant by Anne Gardiner Perkins

In 1969 Yale University opened it's doors to women students for the first time. Yale was known for it's dedication to graduating "one thousand male leaders" each year, so admitting women was a huge step forward in women's equality in education. But, the first group of women admitted had a very different experience from the men - they were isolated, vastly outnumbered by men, seen as sexual objects and oddities, and barred from many of Yale's extracurricular activities. But, these first women at Yale were determined to change Yale from the inside out and make a place for themselves. By the time the freshmen enrolled in Yale in 1969 graduated in 1973 more significant strides had been made, but there was still a long way to go for women to be seen as equals on college campuses, workplaces, and the world. As the author points out today we hear the sanitized version of equality like it happened overnight, but as this book shows the first women at Yale had a very hard struggle, but they knew it was worth fighting for and Yale Needs Women shares their stories.

This book was AMAZING! Reading a book like this from today's perspective it's crazy to me to see just how blatant sexual harassment and assaults were and how the women were just used it - not happy, but used to it. Despite their struggles, it was so uplifting to hear the stories of how these women made huge changes to the culture of Yale just by their persistence. Yet another book of trailblazers and pioneers of feminism and women in America.

Some quotes I liked:

"The Film Society's decision to hold the porn fest at the same time as the Free Women Conference, just like the timing of its previous porn fest on the first day of Coeducation Week, was intended as a hilarious joke. Women's lib conference? We'll show them.." (p. 132)

"Despite all the challenges the women students faced, they had outperformed their male classmates...Women sophomores and juniors received Honors, Yale's highest grade, in 31 percent of their classes, compared with 23 percent of the men. Freshmen women got 22 percent Honors, on par with freshmen men, but outflanked men 49 percent to 41 percent in High Pass, the second-highest mark." (p. 142)

"But one power that Brewster [Yale's President] did not mention was perhaps the most important of all: the power to do nothing. As Kit McClure wrote in her diary after the Corporation's March 1970 vote to leave Yale's gender quota unchanged, 'The campaign for full coeducation has been stopped by the Yale Corporation's decision to ignore it.' If the goal is protecting the status quo, the best move by those in power is no move at all." (p. 188)

"The work of leading coeducation at Yale carried with it a terrible sameness. Wasserman had to battle for each inch forward, and sometimes she even lost ground. But Elga Wasserman was a fighter, and even if the title at the bottom of her memos had not changed since 1969, she had increased her power at Yale and beyond...At a time when most Yale women employees were assigned invisible roles as secretaries and dining hall workers, Wasserman showed women an alternative. 'She was a female leader in a place where there were few of them,' said Linden Havemeyer. 'We were proud of her and glad she was there.'" (p. 249)

"And on June 23, 1972, Congresswomen Patsy Mink and Edith Green got the victory they had long worked for. In one simple sentence, Title IX of the 1972 Educational Amendments to the Civil Right Act prohibited the gender discrimination that was rampant in U.S. colleges and universities when the first women undergraduates came to Yale: 'No person shall, on the basis of sex, be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any educational program receiving Federal financial assistance.' No one paid much attention to Title IX at the time it was passed. Few yet understood the extent of gender bias against women in America's colleges and universities. But in the decades that followed, Title IX would halt the gender quotas in admissions that had robbed women of their place in the nation's top schools." (p. 251)

"Title IX began with its one elegant sentence, but then it included a list of institutions that were exempt from its provisions...But the very first exemption went as follows: 'In regard to admissions to educational institutions, this section shall apply only to...public institutions of undergraduate higher education.' In other words, private institutions of undergraduate higher education - Yale, for example, were exempt from Title IX's prohibition of discriminatory admissions policies...'Dartmouth, Princeton, Yale, and Harvard...were able to get a narrowly worded exemption for private undergraduate admissions.' The letters to Congress from these four powerful institutions, written in the fall of 1971 during the initial stages of the legislation's development, had succeeded...by the time Title IX passed in 1972, Congress had deferred to Yale's outrage over Edith Green's call for sex-blind admissions, and the final version of the law exempted Yale and the others from that one provision. The exemption still stands today." (p. 251-52)

"On December 9, the Yale Corporation voted to abolish the gender quota that had shaped the first four years of coeducation at Yale. The announcement came with a simple statement: 'We believe that the gender of the applicant should not be the deciding factor in a candidate's admission.' Within five years, the percentage of women at Yale more than doubled to 46 percent. Other battles, both at Yale and beyond, still remained. But all through that year, 1972, the mountains had moved. Someday, they would do so again." (p. 263)

"Two months after the Yale Corporation adopted sex-blind admissions, [Elga Wasserman] learned that she no longer had a job at Yale. Brewster terminated her special assistant position and gave all four of the new jobs she expressed interest in to other. Wasserman was left with nothing...Yet once again, Wasserman proved resilient. She enrolled at Yale Law School and received her law degree in 1976 at age fifty-two. Wasserman practiced family law in New Haven for the rest of her career and in 2000 wrote her first book, The Door in the Dream: Conversations With Eminent Women in Science. She died in 2014." (p. 274)



The Month of Their Ripening: North Carolina heritage food through the year by Georgann Eubanks

Georgann Eubanks fondly remembers knowing it was September when her grandfather took her out to pick scuppernong grapes. Food, memory, and season are linked in our minds and in this book Eubanks explores 12 seasonal North Carolina foods that were highly anticipated and available only for a short season. Today it can be hard to remember that all food is not available all year round thanks to shipping produce around the world. But, anticipating a favorite seasonal food and savoring it while it's around is an experience more people should have. Many of the foods Eubanks highlights are too fragile to ship around the world, so they become part of the region's history and culture. Eubanks travels all over North Carolina to sample these seasonal foods and talk to experts and people who are working to keep these North Carolina food traditions alive. I definitely learned a lot and it makes me want to explore more of my home state than I already have. In the Acknowledgments Eubanks explains that she was inspired to write this book after listening to the audiobook of Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. I wish that she had explained that in the beginning of the book because I think that would resonate with her readers as probably anyone interested in this book has probably read Kingsolver's too. Overall, as a native North Carolinian, I thought this was a great book that highlights part of our state's native food culture.

Some quotes I liked:

"Willy Phillips was four years old when he first saw battalions of small fiddler crabs coming out of the salt marsh and marching toward his childhood home on Hewlett's Creek in New Hanover County. Those crabs were not responding to the moon, however. They began climbing the exterior walls of his parents' house to find purchase on the roof. In that fall of 1954, long before Doppler radar and sophisticated weather prediction was possible, the surge of crustacean refugees was the only sign the Phillips family had that Hurricane Hazel was barreling toward Wilmington." (p. 114)

"Evans says he is one of the last farmers in the area to hire local folks exclusively for the weeding and hand-harvesting of his melons. He does not want all the paperwork and regulations that come with hiring migrant workers. He is proud of providing jobs for his neighbors. 'Everybody in this area at one time or another has worked in the fields. It's a rite of passage,' he says. Lifting melons, especially watermelons, is backbreaking labor. 'One thing about it,' Evans says, 'whatever job a young person gets after doing this work is going to seem like a breeze.'" (p. 166)



Golden Girls Forever: an unauthorized look behind the lanai by Jim Colucci

I'm so glad I hadn't read this book until now. It was the perfect book to read during the COVID-19 quarantine time because Golden Girls is such a comforting show. I watched The Golden Girls on TV when I was a kid and most of their jokes went right over my head, but I still loved it. As an adult it's really my comfort show that I watch when I'm upset or home sick or just to have a comforting, familiar show on. This book really gives you a lot of background about the show, the actresses, guest stars, and lots of other fun facts. The only thing I wish had been included was a listing of all the episodes by season. Chapter 5 covers all 7 seasons, but only highlights some of the episodes, usually ones with guest stars or something unique. I wish there had been just a few pages of episodes by season given. The last chapter showed the lasting impact of the show, not just on other TV shows, but just in people's lives. The show is still being shown on TV in reruns and still gaining new fans which is really rare in television. If you are a fan of The Golden Girls this book is a must-own!

Some quotes I liked:

"Having popularized the Golden Rule of Four, The Golden Girls is the thematic ancestor of many shows that followed. Only one year after the Girl's premier, along came the Southern version (Designing Women), followed in the 1990s by the black version (Living Single) and the urban version (Sex and the City)." (p. 24)

"Richard Vaczy: Shortly before this episode [177 &178], my hometown of Sayville, Long Island, had experienced a series of arson fires that had burned down half of Main Street. So to help the town rebuild, we auctioned off a walk-on part on The Golden Girls, with airfare and hotel. And in the end, the man who played the prom king paid twenty-four thousand dollars for that experience." (p. 311)

[Which of the Girls is Your Favorite?] "Dorothy - Because she did more with one eyebrow than most people can do with an entire script. - Maile Falangan, Actor." (p. 347)

"By the summer of 2006 - fourteen years after The Golden Girls ended its original run - the show was still drawing eleven million viewers per week and thirty million per month on the Lifetime cable network, its home from 1997 - 2009. Although up against much newer sitcom competition, any given one of the show's seven daily airings still ranked among the top three 'off-network' sitcoms shown by Lifetime, and among the top seven on any cable channel. 'There aren't too many shows from 1985 which hold up like that,' notes television historian Tim Brooks...Tim explains that the steady viewership of The Golden Girls, barely changed from 1997 to that point in 2006, was very unusual...'But The Golden Girls has turned out to be a long-distance runner.'" (p. 348-49)

"Right from the beginning, young people liked the show. I thought and thought about why and I finally realized it is because the show may have been about older ladies, but it was still very antiestablishment. - Bea Arthur" (p. 363)



Friday, September 18, 2020

March 2020 Cookbooks

 


The Homestead Canning Cookbook by Georgia Varozza

Georgia Varozza has been home canning for over 40 years and is a Certified Master Food Preserver. In this book she talks about her own history with canning, gives a history of canning, how to get started, the basics of water bath and pressure canning, then lots of recipes. The recipes are divided into categories like butters/jams, pickles, tomatoes, soups/stews, etc. The last chapter is called "what went wrong" and helps home canners figure out problems or issues with their canning process or canned goods. I really like that in her introduction she gives tips on "how to fit canning into a busy life." I work full time and can a lot, especially in the summer and a lot of people ask me how I do it. But, you fit in what you want to do and what you value and food is very important to me - plus I don't want to waste all the organic produce from my garden! I really liked all the tips and information Varozza gave because it would benefit new canners or more established home canners. While I didn't find a lot of recipes I wanted to try, I would still recommend this one just because it has a lot of helpful information. But, as I always say with any canning book - it's better to take a class or learn how to can from someone experienced, not from a chapter in a book.



Start Simple: eleven everyday ingredients for countless weeknight meals by Lukas Volger

I should have realized by looking at the list of eleven ingredients that this was a vegetarian cookbook, but I didn't realize it until I started reading the introduction. While I have no problem with people who want to be vegetarian for whatever reason, I don't like it when they try to tell you that meat is the main environmental issue. Factory farmed ANYTHING is the problem. Small-scale, sustainable meat farming is not only not bad for the environment, but the meat is better for you. So, I kind of got off to a not great start with this cookbook, but I wasn't totally close-minded because I do like vegetable-based meals too. But, there just wasn't a ton of recipes that jumped out to me. And again with the pushing vegetarianism to save the planet I was kind of turned off. I did find a few recipes I want to try, but overall I would not recommend this one.


March 2020 Reviews

 



Martha Stewart's Organizing by Martha Stewart

I'm always a little leery of Martha Stewart stuff because she can come across as condescending and elitist, but I did enjoy this book. It's divided into three categories - organize your year, organize your home, and organize your routine. Organize your year helps organize your calendar with tips and ideas for each month. Each month includes any holiday that falls that month, but also some cooking/baking ideas, and housekeeping tasks like cleaning all your windows, or deep cleaning your oven. I liked this section the best and actually wrote down some of the ideas for each month to try incorporate more seasonal cleaning/household type things into my calendar. Organize your home goes room by room with tips for organization, cleaning, storage, etc. Organize your routine gives tips on how to better accomplish everyday/regular tasks like laundry, cleaning, yard work, cooking, etc. There are a LOT of good ideas and lots of beautiful photos as well. Overall, a unique look at organizing beyond just "stuff" and more of organizing aspects of your life.



The Less People Know About Us by Axton Betz-Hamilton

When Axton Betz-Hamilton was eleven-years-old her parents identity was stolen. This was before the internet made this type of fraud easier, so they had little help from the authorities. They did what they could by getting a PO Box to make it harder for someone to steal their mail, but anxiety and money troubles plagued all three of them. Axton grew up learning not to ask for much because it would result in an argument between her parents about money. Because they didn't know who the identity theft was they cut off almost everyone from their lives. When Axton went to college she found out that she too has also been a victim of the identity theif and had tens of thousands of dollars of debt already in her name. Because of this she ended up going all the way to a PhD with her dissertation being about childhood victims of identity theft and becoming an expert in the newly emerging field of identity theft. After her mother passed away the identity of the identity theft is revealed and it completely rocks Axton's world. Then she's on a mission to find out everything she can about the thief hoping it will help her understand why all this happened. Meanwhile she and her father are still trying to pick up the pieces of their lives and move on after her mother's death. A fast-paced story that reads more like a whodunit novel than non-fiction, this is a heart-breaking, but hopeful read about how to move beyond a painful childhood even when you don't have all the answers.

There were a lot of mixed reviews of this book, but I LOVED it. Without giving anything away, I felt like it was pretty obvious who the identity thief was from the beginning, but even more secrets are uncovered at the end. Some of the complaints in reviews were that this book should have been less about identity theft and more about mental illness, but I disagree. The book is from Axton's perspective and it wasn't until she uncovered who the thief was that she began to see how abnormal her childhood was and how mental illness came into play. And identity theft became Axton's career because of what happened in her childhood, so to me it makes sense that that was the focus of the book.

Some quotes I liked:

"'The less people know about us, the better' was my mother's refrain. My father parroted it often. This wasn't a completely new phenomenon...In the years prior to the identity theft, when we still used to go to parties at their friends' houses, Mom would instruct me to 'act like you belong here.' Belonging somewhere in rural Indiana meant being a happy family with a pristine farm. And so the hayfields on the south side of the house were neatly manicured, and when mowing the grass became by responsibility, Dad used to walk me around the yard afterward to personally demonstrate all the spots I had missed...Even during the full onslaught of the crimes committed against us, I was coached to report how great everything was going...All of it was an elaborate illusion, a magic trick we never stopped perfecting. On the outside, our lives looked solid and well put together, but on the inside, everything was falling apart. Everything including me." (p. 83-85)

"This obsession with appearances ran deep and began well before the identity theft. My mother had struggled with her weight as long as I could remember. Once, when I was in first or second grade, I came home crying because the kids at school had called me fat. Instead of comforting me, or telling me that I wasn't fat (and in fact, quite scrawny), she said that, unfortunately, there was little to be done about it. 'Eventually you will be,' she declared, 'big like me.' After years of watching my mom try diets and take Dexatrim and argue with my father over her eating habits, this proclamation terrified me." (p. 85)

"Sometimes when I think about what I have lost, I rage against the unfairness of it all. In many ways the financial impact of my family's identity theft was the least of the damage. You can rebuild your credit; you cannot rebuild your childhood." (p. 301)




Sing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward (Books & Banter book club)

Leonie is a drug addict who has two children with her boyfriend Michael. Michael is currently in prison, but when he finds out he is getting out Leonie decides to take their two children (and her friend Misty who she gets high with) to meet him. Their epic road trip turns out to be full of ghosts, illness, almost-overdoses, and drama. At Parchman, the prison where Michael was, the ghost of Richie (who has ties to Leonie's father, River) comes back with them hoping to find peace with River. The story is narrated by Jojo, Leonie's thirteen-year-old son, Leonie, and Richie. And while all this is going on Leonie's mother, who has basically been raising her grandchildren their whole lives, is dying of cancer. So, this is real uplifting, good-time story, right?!

This book has won so many awards, but I honestly have no idea why. Many of the reviews I read talked about how beautifully it was written, but I didn't see that AT ALL. I don't mind reading hard books like The Underground Railroad and The Nickel Boys by Colson Whitehead, but even in those there was some semblance of hope. I didn't love Unsheltered by Barbara Kingsolver, but it WAS beautifully written even if I didn't love the characters or storyline. But, I don't get anything remotely positive or beautiful about this book's writing, characters, or storyline. It's like a bad TV movie version of Intervention, but without the actual intervention or hopeful ending. Ugh. At least this one was short and a quick, but deeply depressing read.



The Way Through the Woods: overcoming grief through nature by Long Litt Woon

When Long Litt Woon's husband, Eiolf, unexpectedly passed away she worked through her grief in an unusual way - she became a mushroom forager. She took a mushrooms for beginners course that was offered in Oslo and after that first class she found herself inexplicably drawn to the world of mushrooms and foraging. Such was her interest that she ended up taking an exam to become a mushroom inspector, something only Norway offers its citizens. She also travels all over the world to mushroom festivals and conferences and even organizes a sensory panel to try to more thoroughly describe the smells of various mushrooms to make it easier for novices to identify their finds. Throughout her mushroom journey Long finds that it gives her both a purpose and a distraction from her husband's death. Each chapter describes part of her mushroom journey and also a few sections about coping with her grief. My only (small) complaint is that the descriptions of her grief often seemed just kind of stuck in the chapters, but maybe it feels that way since it was translated and not originally written in English. But, overall I did appreciate her story and all of the information about mushrooms and foraging was fascinating.

A quote I liked:

"Slowly but surely, as time went on, the pattern of my days began to change. This new life gradually began to blossom. Mushroom outings gave me the push I needed to get out of the house and take part in life, instead of staying immersed in grief within its four walls. They also allowed me to get to know people in the mushroom community, who made me feel welcome on their outings...There are so many hours in the day that have to be filled when someone very close to us passes away. No wonder people talk about a vacuum after someone dies. For me, these forays into the fungi kingdom became a way of spending this unwelcome spare time." (p. 62-3)




News of the World by Paulette Jiles (Evening Edition book club, re-read)

After the Civil War Captain Jefferson Kidd rides from small town to small town reading the News of the World from various newspapers. He's lived through three wars, is widowed, and enjoys the freedom of not being tied down in his old age. While at one of his stops he is offered a fifty-dollar gold piece to bring a rescued white child back to her family. Johanna Leonberger's parents and younger sister were killed by Kiowa raiders and she was kidnapped and lived with them for 4 years. She is now 10 years old, does not speak English, and doesn't want to leave her Kiowa family. The Captain agrees to take her against his better judgement, but while traveling across the wild Texas territory the two form a unique bond. Once they reach her extended family outside San Antonio the Captain has to make a terrible choice that will ultimately change both he and Johanna's lives forever. This is a short, but fantastic book with two very memorable characters and would make a great movie! Definitely worth reading!

Updated review after 2nd reading:

Re-reading this book was even more enjoyable the second time. There were scenes I didn't remember, but overall I was able to read it a little more slowly because I knew the ending so I wasn't rushing to find out what happens. I still got choked up at the very end. I just LOVE Captain Kidd and Johanna and now to find out there will be a movie later this year is even better!



Kitchen Yarns by Ann Hood 

Ann Hood grew up in an Italian-American household where her grandmother lived with them and cooked all their meals. Her parents cooked some as well, but somehow in a family that loved food and cooking Ann never learned to cook until she was an adult. Once on her own she cooked for comfort or in celebration or as a way to show love to her friends and family. Once she had children she made sure they were with her in the kitchen helping and learning like she didn't get to in her own childhood. In this collection of essays Hood writes about all the ways food has shaped her life. Each essay ends with a recipe (or 3) that were discussed in that essay. Hood is an excellent writer and having read some of her books in the past I remembered how much I enjoy reading her. This collection of essays will definitely inspire you to get into your own kitchen and either try something new or re-create a family favorite.



The Scent Keeper by Erica Bauermeister

Emmaline lives an idyllic childhood with her father on a remote island. They forage for food, grow a garden, chop wood, and enjoy exploring together. Emmaline's father has a huge wall of drawers where he keeps glass jars of scents that he makes with a scent capturing machine. But, as Emmaline gets older she has more questions that he father won't answer - where is her mother? how did they get to this island? why are the boxes that wash up on shore always full of exactly what they need? When Emmaline starts to find out some of the truth behind her questions she unintentionally betrays her father and is suddenly out in "the real world" away from her childhood island. Now she must dig deep to find out the answers to more of her questions and along the way she starts to discover who she really is and how she can still honor her father's work.

When I first started this book I was really hoping it wasn't going to go the Orphan Island route because it seemed kind of a bizarre premise. But, in the second section you definitely get more answers and it starts to make a little more (realistic) sense. I did feel like the ending was pretty lacking. I would have at least liked an afterward or something. I also was almost certain that Emmaline was going to end up pregnant in the second section and how she didn't is some magical realism right there. Overall, the story was fast-paced and I wanted to know what happened. But, I didn't love it and unless the author is setting us up for a sequel I would have liked more from the ending.



Smarter Living: work, invest, nest, relate, thrive by Karen Barrow, Tim Herrera, Karron Skog and The New York Times

Smarter Living is the advice section of The New York Times and this book is a collection of those articles divided into five sections - Work, Nest, Invest, Relate, and Thrive. Each article within the sections is relatively short and covers a specific topic. Regardless of your job or stage of life you should be able to find several articles that are helpful. There were several articles in each section that I learned something or got something out of it. But, there was one article in the Nest section that I very much disagreed with. The article is "Eight, Cheap, Landlord-Friendly Ways to Upgrade Your Rental." As a landlord I would be VERY unhappy if any of my tenants did some of the suggested things - install new cabinet handles, upgrade the lighting, swap out the faucet, replace the toilet (WTF why would you do that?!). We had a tenant change out light fixtures without asking and while she did put back our original lighting when she moved out that is something that could cause an electrical fire if not done properly. Same with changing a toilet if you don't know what you're doing you could really do some damage. I understand you might not like every detail of a rental, but maybe let that motivate you to save up for your own place instead of making huge changes to a house that is not yours. I was so mad after I read that article! Overall though I did like this book. It's a quick read with lots of great tips and ideas that could make your life better.



On the Clock: what low-wage work did to me and how it drives American insane by Emily Guendelsberger

When the newspaper Emily Guendelsberger worked for closed she decided to work on a book about low-wage work and decided to do it through her own experience. She worked at an Amazon fulfillment center in Louisville, Kentucky, Convergys, a call-center in Hickory, North Carolina, and a McDonald's in San Francisco, California. In each position Emily is worked to her absolute physical, mental, and emotional limit. The book alternates between her personal experiences in each job and the history of employment in the United States and how employees have gone from being the most expensive element of production to the cheapest (and most replaceable). She also covers how working these kinds of jobs take such a heavy toll on a person and how often people cope in very unhealthy ways. On the Clock is kind of a modern Nickel and Dimed with the focus more on the toll this kind of work takes on the worker and not quite as much on how impossible it is to support yourself and a family in one of these jobs. Emily does an amazing job with this book and gives an insiders look at some of the most common jobs around today. And I'll be honest after reading this book and Nomadland it's making me rethink using Amazon. I would highly recommend this one.

There were a LOT of quotes I liked:

"I did plenty of research beforehand, and I'd heard crazy things about how stressful each job would be - each in its own special way, like Tolstoy's unhappy families. But at each of them, technology made it impossible to escape the weeds. And every time, my thorough research totally failed to prepare me for how dehumanizing the job felt. (p. 11)

"Actually, Amazon's early supply-chain and warehousing systems were designed by a former Walmart executive - one of so many high-level execs Amazon poached that Walmart sued, demanding that Amazon 'stop targeting Wal-Mart associates and vendors in an effort to duplicate proprietary business systems.'" (p. 24)

"Nearly every drop of 'brain work' has been wrung out of this job, like so many others. Cashiers used to have to be able to do math in their heads to give people change; today, many registers automatically dispense the appropriate coins. Call-center workers rely on elaborate scripts instead of understanding the systems they work within. London's taxi drivers, who once had to study for years to pass the Knowledge, are being displaced by Uber drivers with GPS maps. As more and more skill is stripped out of a job, the cost of turnover falls; eventually, training an ever-churning influx of new unskilled workers becomes less expensive than incentivizing people to stay by improving the experience of work or paying more." (p. 76-77)

"A good rule of thumb: the more interest management take in workers' use of the bathroom, the more that job is going to suck. And I could easily fill the next twenty pages with unbelievable stories just about call-center bathrooms." (p. 123)

"There's a lot of talk about the decline of the American family in certain circles, and I don't think it's unfounded. Family is powerful: it motivates us, and it ties us down. It's the strongest force in most people's lives. But a lot of this talk blames the decline of family on weird stuff - gay marriage, women in the workplace, video games, Frozen, sluts, lizard people, Miley Cyrus. After my experiences in the low-wage sector, I have no doubt whatsoever: the way we work in America is crippling family life. So, so many working parents I met in the course of writing this book sacrificed their relationships with each other for the sake of their kids [often purposely working opposite shifts so someone was home with the kids]." (p. 193)

Henry Ford quote about the repetitive labor of his assembly line jobs, "Repetitive labour - the doing of one thing over and over again and always in the same way - is a terrifying prospect to a certain kind of mind. It is terrifying to me. I could not possibly do the same thing day in and day out, but to other minds, perhaps I might say to the majority of minds, repetitive operations hold no terrors." (p. 200)

"The entrance to the nearby BART stop is crowded with a dozen homeless people, so many that it's actually hard to get down the stairs. None of them bothers to ask me for money, because, as I've been fascinated to discover, my McDonald's uniform is like an invisibility cloak when it comes to panhandlers. The whole time I work here, exactly one guy hits me up while I'm in uniform - and I don't really count him, because his 'Hey, spare a cheeseburger?' was clearly meant to make me laugh." (p. 254)

[In dealing with rude customers who often throw food or condiments at staff] "So I wise up. I become less sympathetic and more skeptical about customer problems - and it works. I get better at shaking off unpleasant customers like Mustard Lady. I get harder and more pragmatic, like my coworkers...Like a robot. But empathy is a two-sided coin. The shield protects me from screamers, but it also appears to filter out any satisfaction I used to get from making people happy. Without that, and without much opportunity to form friendships with coworkers, my shifts become hour after hour of mechanical movement at top speed, saying the same words and performing the same motions over and over and over. I start really dreading my shifts." (p. 278)

"But trauma isn't the best method of creating a model of depression. All you have to do is remove control and predictability - the exact things low-wage workers have been forced to sacrifice in the name of corporate efficiency and flexibility. Is it any surprise that it feels like the country's losing its collective mind? It would be more surprising if we weren't. (p. 281)

"In the 1970's, Japan coined a new word - karoshi, meaning death by overwork - after businessmen in their thirties and forties started dropping dead from strokes, heart attacks, and suicide after working twenty-hour days for months at a time. Giving the phenomenon a name, starting to measure it, and imposing a nontrivial punishment on the companies driving it were the first steps in keeping karoshi from getting out of hand. There's now words for karoshi in Mandarin, Korean, and other Asian languages, though today they're mostly applied to blue-collar factory workers, not well-paid businessmen. But there's still no word for it in English, even as stress-related illnesses become an even bigger health crisis than cigarettes. Until we recognize this, name it, measure it, and talk about it, things aren't going to get better." (p. 310-11)



Girl on the Block by Jessica Wragg

When Jessica Wragg was 16 she got a job in a local farm store. While she was hired to work the register in the butcher area, she became interested in learning to work as a butcher after seeing the butchers at work. Because she was young and a woman she had a hard time getting the butchers to teach her anything, but eventually she did learn how to do some actual butchering. In college she worked part time at a more well-known butcher shop in London and eventually went on to work in marketing for an up-and-coming butcher shop. While parts of her story were interesting, there was a LOT of sexual harassment and really terrible work environments literally everywhere she worked in this book. I know it's often harder for women to be taken seriously in commercial kitchens and in butcher shops, but her experiences make me wonder why she even kept going in that field. The last chapter was more about drama with her boyfriend than anything else. She did give some information about meat and butchery between chapters, but overall it was just OK. Thankfully it was a pretty quick read.

A quote I did like:

"On average, one pound of industrially farmed chicken costs two dollars, while free-range cost five dollars. One pound of ground beef from intensive farms cost five dollars, while free-range costs almost nine dollars. As consumers, what we see first is the price. And it's easy to understand why we would opt for the cheaper and more convenient option, neatly packaged and ready for us to simply pick up and put in our basket. What we don't see are the larger ethical and environmental implications that go hand in hand with choosing to buy meat that has been reared quickly in a confined space and on a mass scale." (p. 80)



Grow Food for Free by Huw Richards

Even though I'm a semi-experienced gardener I still like to read any new gardening books because you can ALWAYS learn more and will never know everything there is to know about gardening. In Huw Richards book he shows that you don't have to invest a lot of money into creating a successful vegetable garden. He gives a lot of good tips on how to source materials for your garden or even using someone else's yard/garden. He has an entire chapter devoted to creating compost, which is great, but I do wish he would have talked a little more about cheaper ways to get good dirt to start your garden. When we first started our garden we ended up getting not great soil, but have amended it over time with our own compost, but I think that is one of the most challenging things with getting started. He talks about perennial and annual vegetables and herbs. He gives tips on dealing with common pests, how to best invest in your garden as you progress and I really like that the last chapter is Huw's Journal that shows one year of him creating a garden and growing food. Overall, this is a good book to help you get started growing your own food without breaking the bank.



Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come: one introvert's year of saying yes by Jessica Pan

Jessica Pan is a self-described shintrovert (a shy introvert) who realized that she needed more friends and more real connections in her life. She had friends, but several had moved away and she didn't have anyone local to call for a last minute coffee or event. So, she challenged herself to spend a year saying yes and doing things WAY outside her comfort zone - like stand up comedy and improv. During the year some things work out really well, while others still don't, but she does make several new friend connections that are real and continue after the year of extroversion.

As someone who is also an introvert and would also like to make more friends, I thought I would relate to Pan's story more. But, somehow I just couldn't connect with her. I know she was really trying to push herself, but I don't think you have to do stand up comedy in order to get outside your comfort zone. There were parts that I really liked, but overall it just sort of fell a little flat for me.